Sunday, June 10, 2012

To: Embarrassed Angel


Dear Advice Angel,
 
My boyfriend is like...blah to me right now! His hair is a mess, his clothes awful, and the shoes...don't get me started. I have tried to tell him that his looks have got to change because I consider myself a fashionista and my friends are clowing the sh*t out of me whenever they see him. He is really embarrassing me and I'm close to breaking up with him, but I love him and he is a great guy. From one funky dressed Angel to another...HELP ME!!!
 
Embarrassed Angel


Dear Embarrassed Angel,

I can understand the issue you're going through. I have HAD a few issues in the past with boyfriends. If I learned one thing, it's that guys are stubborn, and that they don't like to change much. However, there are ways to help him become convinced that a style change is beneficial to both him and you. It's key to start off slow. Maybe take him to the mall and give him some suggestions. Say something like, "Hey babe, I saw something at this store that would look hot on you." Or you could say, "Baby, how bout you check this haircut out. It frames your sexy face better." That way, not only will you help him become a better dresser, you're also stroking his ego (something that guys LOVE). The object of this is not to change him, but to highlight the great things your man already has. It's all about confidence and pride. He has it within him. Now, it's up to you to help him bring that to the surface. Good luck!


Snapping in Z formation for you!
XOXO, Triumphant Angel


Friday, June 8, 2012

Flabby Angel

Dear Advice Angel,
I am completely in love with my boyfriend. We have been together for 4 years and things are great, but sometimes he talks about my weight. He sometimes calls me names and tells me that I need to lose, but he never tries to help. He isn't the skinniest guy himself and whenever I suggest him trying to diet with me he gets offended. I cannot do this by myself Angel. I know that I need to lose weight, but damn I need some help. What should I do?
Flabby Angel


Dear Flabby Angel

Why don't you try to ask your friends to help you out. They may help you to lose the weight since your boyfriend does not want to help. Show him that you are able to lose weight without his help. If your friends won't help you out, try and tell your boyfriend that it would be best if they both try to lose weight for both of you guys health and to try and go on a diet with you also. If you need any other advice let me know. 

xoxo
Lissa07

Thursday, June 7, 2012

Lonely Angel

Dear Advice Angel,

I'm 17 and I will be a senior in high school this year. High school has not been my best years like everyone said they would be. I hardly have any friends, I don't do anything on the weekends, and my dating life is not there. I'm miserable because I feel like everyone is laughing at me. I'm not sure what to do. This is my last year of high school and I want to reinvent myself so that I'm not going to the prom alone. Help me Angel.

Lonely Angel

Dear Lonely Angel,

I was you about 1,000 years ago when I was a high school senior (only 7 years lol). The solution to your problem is very simple...GET ACTIVE!! There are countless clubs at your school that are just begging for you to join! You have to find something that you are good at and find a club that would benefit from your talents. If you can't find a club then create one! I bet if you join a club there are going to be people there whom you haven't met. The conversation starter will be an wasy one since you guys already have the club in common. There goes your new friends as well!! Now for the weekends, volunteering is amazing and it will help your college applications if you are going that route. You can also meet new people this way. You have to get out there and mingle! Sitting at home every weekend you will never find new friends. Guys love, love, love confident women...THIS IS SOOOOO YOU!! You have to show people that you are fun and that you can take it or leave it and this kind of attitude is going to have the guys flocking to you. I hope I helped Angel and I'm always here for you!!

And FYI College is really your best years so get ready!!! ;)

XOXO,

Advice Angel

Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Pissed Off Angel

Dear Advice Angel,



I have given up on trying to be followed by Trey on twitter. With the exception of just a few days ago, Trey seemed to only follow strippers or exotic looking chicks and I am neither of those. I am an average looking girl with a flat chest and no ass. I'm dark skinned and I don't have long hair. I know that Trey would never look twice at me, but that doesn't stop me from spending my money on M & G tickets for every show...like an idiot. I have asked trey on NUMEROUS occasions to follow me, but he never does. He always says he will, but he doesn't and I'm sick of it. I know he doesn't follow because he doesn't find me attractive and thats what hurts the most. I may not be model pretty, but my money spends the same as theirs. I'm dedicated to him and I deserve a follow. I think I may just forget trying for a follow and denounce my Angel ship. Any advice?



Pissed Off Angel
 
Dear Pissed Off Angel,
Im in the same boat as you. I always thought I would have been followed by trey by now too.
I would say be patient as you possibly can , i do think its not fair as angels we have to keep waiting for our follows from trey but he is a busy man and has 4 million people following him that he can't see each one. I would sugget writing him a letter thats what I did and asking him to follow me, although i'm still waiting. I do think its not right that he follows alot of strippers and models but he is human you have to remember that. He is not perfect and sometimes doesn't see what we angels want him to see. I do not think you should denounce your angel membership because you never know what Trey may do. He is very spontaneous in a way that will make you forget why you were mad at him. So just be patient your time is coming. Next time you see him juss tell him to have twitter open or write him alil note saying follow me on twitter please. I guarantee you will have a follow and a hug in no time. Baby Steps as I call it. He said my name march 8,2012 so Im determined to get my follow soon.:) I hope this advice helps you and im here if you need anything else ;)
 
xoxo,
bballmypassion<3

Sunday, April 22, 2012

Obsessed Angel

Dear Advice Angel,

I think I'm obsessed with Trey Songz. I know what you may be thinking,you're an Angel so how can you be obsessed, but I honestly think that I am. I love everything about him and his singing drives me crazy! I've been dating a guy for about 3 months and we get along well, but lately he has been complaining that all I ever listen to is Trey. Whenever he is in my car I always blast Trey,but thats because I love him. Of course I deny it, but I think he may be right. I fantasize about Trey all day everyday. I cant help it, he is so fine. My bf said that if I dont stop checking for Trey so much that he is going to dump me. What should I do? I love Trey and I'm not interested in leaving him.

Obsessed Angel


Dear Obsessed Angel,

Well, I have the same problem, but I'm not obsessed with Trey. My bf knows I like Trey, but I don't talk to him about it. You have to ask yourself, do you want to be single all your life or do you want to be with your bf? If I were you, I would chose your bf because, Trey is just a person you fantasize about. It's not like any of us angels are gonna ever be with him. Plus guys don't like us liking a guy celebrity like that. I can tell you from experience. Do you love your bf? Do you want to stay with him? These are the questions you have to ask yourself. So if you can try and do fun stuff with your bf to get your mind off Trey. That's what me and my bf do. As far as you listening to Trey, your bf shouldn't have a problem with it. You can listen to whatever you want to listen too. He's gonna have to accept the fact that you are gonna listen to Trey's music whether he likes it or not. Even if(or when) yall get married you gonna still listen to him. So, just try and cut down on thinking about Trey so much. I know its gonna be hard, but I have confidence in you that you can. If you need any other advice, let me know and I will try and answer it the best way I can.

xoxo
Lissa89

Thursday, April 19, 2012

To Confused Angel

Dear Advice Angel,
I have been with the same guy for about a year now and we get along well. He is a bit more reserved than I am but its all good. I went to his family reunion three weeks ago and I met one of his cousins. He was hella cute and we ended up laughing and talking half the time I was there. My boyfriend thinks its great that I am getting along with his family, but he doesn't know that his cousin and I have been texting each other nonstop since we met. I even ended a date early with my bf so that I could go catch a movie with the cousin. I like the cousin so much but I dont want to hurt my bf. What should I do?
Confused Angel

Dear Confused Angel,
Im glad you came here for help. I really think you should talk to your BF about your feelings.It seems as though you have lost interest in your current relationship and are ready to move on. You may not want to hear this but maybe you should break up with your BF and just be friends because the situation could get worse if you and the cousin get serious..Does the cousin know you have a Bf? if not you need to let him know that way you dont end up hurt in the end. Communication makes everything else easier. ;) I hope everything works out for you, keep me posted if you need more help ur more than welcome to come back.

xoxo,
bballmypassion<3

NO Baby Angel

Dear Advice Angel,
My husband is a great man. He is an excellent provider and he treats me very nice. Lately he has been talking about having children and i dont think that would be such a bad idea, but all he does in his free time is play video games. I mean he gets pissed off if I ask him to do something else. He is almost 30 years old and I think games are little to childish for him. How can I tell him to cut it out without being mean?
No Baby Angel

Dear No baby Angel,

First off thanks for bringing your question here, and the best thing to do is to sit down with your husband and discuss with him how important it is that you would love children. You can just ask him politely to cut back on playing video games and maybe focus moreon the important things in life. Video games will always be there but the times to focus on having children may not come as often as you want due to work and other things that may arise. So sit down havea nice talk with your husband over dinner about your feelings. I hope this helps.;) and come back if you need more help



xoxo,
bballmypassion <3

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

To: Shamed Angel

Dear Advice Angel,

My boyfriend has absolutely no rhythm. He thinks he is Chris Brown however. Just picture a dude with Trey Songz swag and Trey Songz dances...FAIL! The prom is coming up and I really don't want to be laughed out of school. Whenever I say anything to him about his dancing he gets pissed and won't talk to me until I apologize. I want my prom night to be magical but I dont want to be embarrassed either. Any advice?

Shamed Angel


Dear Shamed Angel,

Yikes! His dancing is THAT bad? (No disrespect to Trey, but....you know. LOL) Well, since flat out telling him is not working, just try showing him in a smooth and easy way. When you dance with him, just ease into getting him to do what you want. Like, slowly back up on him, hold his hands and dance on him. That way, you both would be technically dancing without the embarrassment. And if that doesn't work out, just have fun with him anyway. It's your prom, and the most important thing about prom is to just have fun with your boyfriend. If you can't beat him, might as well join him. Happy dancing!

XOXO,
Triumphant Angel

Wish I Were Deaf Angel

Dear Advice Angel,
My boyfriend is in a band and he really loves it. In fact, he is one of the only guys I know that loves Trey Songz for his drive and determination. You can't imagine how much that turns me on, but there is one problem, my bf SUCKS as a singer! Omg Angel he sounds like a drowning bird trying to sing. As Angels, we all know how much Trey,s high notes SLAY, but whenever my bf tries to imitate I cringe! He is thinking of singing SABTL in the upcoming talent show but I dont want him to because I dont want him to embarrass himself. What should I do???
Wish I Were Deaf Angel


Dear Wish I Were Deaf Angel,

Lol. When I got this question, I laughed to myself because, I understand what you mean. My bf thinks he can sing too, but I tell him all the time that he can't sing. Lol. But, he never listen's to me. Since your his gf, be honest with him and tell him that he cannot sing. Don't say it in a mean or rude way. Say it in a nice way. If he get's mad, then one day when you catch him singing, record him and then show it to him. He probably will then realize how much he can't sing. Then suggest to him to do something else in the talent show. If he can't think of something else to do in the talent show, try and ask him what he likes to do. Whether it's dancing, playing an instrument, etc.... If you need any other advice, feel free to ask me anything. I will answer it the best way I can.


xoxo
Lissa89
Dear Advice Angel,

I love school! Im very smart, involved with school, and ahead of the game. i have a plan for my life and so far I am really sticking to it. Lately i have wanted to add some excitement to my life.Being smart and active in school has not made me very popular with the other kids so im kinda a loner. the school elections are coming up an i would love to run for an office but im afraid no one will vote for me. Any advice for me?

Unsure Angel

Dear Unsure Angel,

I do have some advice for you...YOU HAVE TO RUN!!! You have to try Angel because if you dont try you will never know if you could have won. We were alike in school. I was kinda a nerd, but I wanted to run for class office as a senior. I had some really mean b*tches run against me and they made the time that i ran a living hell...but I BEAT THEM! Turns out everyone was tired of their stuck up a$$es! This could be your moment Angel and you have to take it. Make sure that you have a list of things that you would like to see changed and stick with it! There could be more students who think exactly like you. Most importantly HAVE FUN! Im here for you Angel, anytime you need me. Now get to writing that campaign speech!

XOXO,
Advice Angel

To: Not Hair Ready Angel


Dear Advice Angel,
My mother has been a beautician for 20 something years and she is very good at what she does. She always talks about retiring and how she cant wait for me to take her place. Now that I graduate high school in May she wants me to go to beauty school but that isnt what I want to do. Matter of fact I dont even want to stay in town. Im ready to move and i no longer want to attend school until im ready. Is there a nice way I can tell her that hair is not my thing?


Not Hair Ready Angel


Dear Angel, well i mean just be real with your mom that you don't wanna hurt her feelings but being a beautician just isn't something you have your career set on.. And that school will be set on hold you just want to live your life with a little fun but tell her that will go to school eventually just not right away, and away from home suggest that maybe you will help her out from time to time when it comes to doing people hair so she won't feel alone. I hope this works out for you angel and remember if you ever need more advice don't be afraid to ask that question..

xoxox
IdolizedAngel

To: Worried Angel


Dear Advice Angel,

This is so hard for me to explain so I will just start at the beginning. When I was 13 i wanted to be grown so badly. I acted out towards my parents, I cut up in school, and I dated much older guys. I was so popular and all the guys wanted me. The oldest guy I dated was 19. And he was so fine. I lost my virginity to him after only 3 months of dating and he quickly kicked me to the curb. About 6 months later i found out that I was HIV positive. I tried talking to him but he denied that it was from him cause he was clean. He tarnished my name and told the entire school that I was easy. I ended up having to move. I told my parents that I was raped because i didnt want them to know their daughter was a slut. After 5 years of punishing myself i finally met someone great. I love him and things are getting serious. I know he is going to bring up sex soon and Im nervous. I dont know how to tell him and Im afraid to lose him. My health is under control because i take my medication as directed. Please help me because I dont know what to do.

Worried Angel



Dear Worried Angel,

Wow, this is a tough subject. However, I will try to give you the best advice I can. First off, it takes a lot of courage to write in about this situation because HIV is still such a taboo subject. I applaud you for telling us here about your situation. So now, it's time for you to apply the same courage into telling your boyfriend. Tell him about your entire situation. And yes, that includes your sexual history. Not only is it fair for him to know, it is also the law to tell every potential sexual partner about your HIV status and how you are taking control of it. This doesn't mean that sex is out of the question. You just have to wrap it up and take extra precautions. Most importantly, it's about being truthful to yourself, to your boyfriend and to your family. Yes, I'm suggesting talking to your parents as well because if you don't, it's going to eat you up inside for the rest of your life. Just note that your boyfriend may not give you the reaction you want, but at least you give him the right for him to make that choice. Stay strong, my sista.

XOXO,
Triumphant Angel

Unsatisfied Angel



Dear Advice Angel,
I read comments from other advice that you gave another angel who had the problem of her boyfriend being too big. Well my problem is the exact opposite. I love my boyfriend to death, but his d*$k is just too small. I dont feel anything when we f$#k. Do you have any advice for me?
Unsatisfied Angel


Dear Unsatisfied Angel,

Well ummm... Where do i start from?? Well u can talk to him and tell him bout how you feel about that situation. That way yall can talk bout other things he can try to perform better in the bedroom. Or maybe he can take some sort of d*$k growin pill. I really hope i helped you in some kind of way. :/


XOXO, WISE ANGEL

Unhealthy Angel

Dear Advice Angel,

I have been married for one year and I am completely in love. I used to be a skinny young thang back in high school, but of course that was from an eating disorder. I know that my hubby loves me, but lately he has been making small remarks about my weight and it is starting to get to me. They arent rude remarks and they are all true but it still hurts. Its so hard for me to lose weight without purging and the stress of work, no money, and now his remarks arent helping. He is a big guy as well and its not like he tries to workout with me. We also eat cheap fast food a lot because thats what we can afford. Is there anything that i can do to calm my nerves or help me lose weight without reverting to my old ways?

Unhealthy Angel

Dear Unhealthy Angel,
WoW, your story is very real and alot of people go through it so I commend you for coming here with your question. Im sad to say your husband is verbally abusing you for talking about your weight which is not good. I bet you are beautuful. What you can do is start by making a excersize chart which includes the date, the exercise, and also the meals you eat on that day. I advise you cut out eating fast food all the time because its not good.it makes ur weight go up unless you watch what you eat. So follow these steps and You will be ok ;)...and Get your husband involved sounds like he needs this too. U can always come back here if you need too :)





xoxo,
bballmypassion<3

Monday, April 16, 2012

Unsure Angel

Dear Advice Angel,

  I'm 12 years old, 13 May 25, and I'm completely miserable! I never see my friends anymore(including my best friend) because we no longer have classes together. I also don't get to talk to them on the phone either. I used to be teased for my weight but not so much anymore since I'm loosing weight. My mom's always at work and doesn't get home until 2 in the morning! My parents also just got a divorce. My mom and I are supposed to be getting a new house with her boyfriend this summer(closing date on my birthday). I'll never get to talk to my friends! On top of that, whenever i try to explain my feelings to my mom, she never listens. I don't know what to do. I never leave the house unless I'm going to school or somewhere with my relatives. I feel like i have no life. My mom thinks I'm trying to grow up to fast because i like MGK & Trey and want to go to their concerts. She also thinks im trying to grow up to fast because instead of always asking her for her credit cards to order things of trey & mgk's offline, i want my own debit card. I'm really just trying to enjoy myself as a kid but I don't know how.

Sincerely,

Unsure Angel


Dear Unsure Angel,

 I have been in your shoes before feeling miserable at that age and feeling like I don't have a life. I realized my parents were just looking out for me at that age because, they didn't want me growing up so fast at the age of 12 and getting myself in trouble. They didn't want me getting pregnant, doing drugs, etc...... As far as asking her for her credit cards to buy things from Trey or MGK, she has the right to say yes or no. You don't need your own credit card or debit card at this age. If you want your own money, ask your mom if you can get an allowance once a week if you do chores. Whatever you want from offline, save the money and see if your mom can get you a gift card from the grocery store and put on it to buy that item you want from offline. Now, the friends issue, I think your mom is scared of the people you may hang with at school or even outside in your neighborhood. Explain to your mom about how you have been feeling about not having friends and try to suggest if she can meet the parents and see if your friends can come over to the house. If you have an other questions, you can ask me. I will answer it the best way I can.

xoxo
Lissa89




Sunday, April 15, 2012

Dear Advice Angel,

I have been dating a really nice guy for about 6 months. He is amazing! He is smart, funny, my friends and family like him, and most importantly he loves God. He hasn't tried to be physical with me at all because he says he wants to wait until im sure i want to take our relationship there, but Angel I couldn't be surer. A few nights ago we tried some sexual stuff and it was really great. I'm not sure how to say this without being graphic so here goes, a gave him a hand job, but when he whipped it out I couldn't believe my eyes. He has the largest penis I have ever seen in my life. Now im no virgin by any means but it has been about a year since i have been fucked and my ex was an averaged sized dude and he was my first. Im afraid that it is going to hurt so badly but I dont want to seem like a baby or im inexperienced. What should I do Angel?

Stretched Out Angel

Dear Stretched Out Angel,

Dont take this the wrong way but you lucky wench! Lol most women would kill to have your problem let me tell you. The answer to your problem is very simple. You gotta tell him. If your guy is as great as you say he is then he will totally understand. Why dont you try to prepare for the big night by "helping" yourself along a week before your romp? Using a toy before hand would loosen you up. Now when the night is finally here then you have to make sure you are completely turned on (a little French Kissing on his behalf is in order if you catch my drift) and relaxed before he starts. Let him know to take it slow and only put in as much as you can take. If you cant take it all then speak up! It wont annoy him, in fact he will find it quite flattering that he is pleasing his boo. Im here for you Angel, whenever you need me. Happy humping!

XOXO,

Advice Angel

tired angel

Dear Advice Angel,
I'm tired of being at home. My mom has a new boyfriend and I can't stand him! He is lazy, has no job, and drinks...a lot. He isn't abusive towards me or my sblings, but he is towards my mom. He beats her on a regular basis and if we try to stop him she gets mad and beats us. I came home from class the other day and found him sleeping with another woman in my mother's bed. I told her that night when she got home from work and she slapped me and told me to stop lying and trying to ruin her happiness. I feel like he is going to continue making a fool of my mom and hit her so hard one day that he may seriously injury her. I don't know what to do Angel. I'm scared for my mom and I don't want to see her continupsuly getting hurt, but I'm also tired of the tables being turned on me. Any advice?
Tired Angel

Dear Tired Angel,

I'm so sorry to hear that angel. No one should put up with that no matter what, and your mother should actually believe you over any man. If you saw it with your own two eyes why would you lie about something like that. First off all no man should be allow to put their hands on any female next time he does call the cops yeah your mother may be mad but you doing it cause you love her, and don't want her hurt. Things could get a lot worse then what it is now. Tell her you want to see her happy with someone who will treat her like the queen she is and that he deserves better. Angel don't be scared you doing what you believe is best and at the end of the day your mom will appreciate everything you have done for her.


xoxo
IdolizedAngel


Sensual Angel

Dear Advice Angel,
 
Some would say that I have the perfect life. I'm a senior in college and I am set to graduate this summer with my degree in business. I live away from home and my family is coming to see me graduate. Unfortunately they don't know what I do for a living. For the entire 4 years that I have been in school I have stripped to pay my tuition. I live in a big city and I work for one of the most prestigious strip clubs in the world. I have "serviced" some of the most famous sexy guys in the world (Trey included) and I love what I do. Its a rush in a half to dance and make guys go crazy all because of the way I'm moving my body. I have a nice car,nice, apartment, and I wear the best name brand clothes that money can buy and I earned it all. I'm nervous because my parents don't know what I do. They are nosey as hell and I'm sure they are gonna want to know. I'm not ashamed because I'm an adult and good at what I do, but if you were me, how wuld you tell your parents?
 
Sensual Angel


Dear Sensual Angel,

The way I would tell my parents is to be honest with them about what you are doing. If they get mad, tell them how you feel about them being nosy and that they have to realize you are a grown women. Your not a child anymore. It's your decision on what you want to do in life. They can't force you to do what you don't want to do. I was in your position at one time where my parents were very nosy especially my mom. She still is to to a certain extent, but you just have to stand up to them, don't be rude, but just talk to them. If you need any other advice let me know and I will be glad to help.

xoxo
Lissa89

Saturday, April 14, 2012

To Frustrated Angel


Dear Advice Angel, 

I have been dealing with something for quite some time so I'm just gonna come out and say it...MY BOYFRIEND IS A LOUSY F**K! He doesn't do any of the stuff that my ex bf used to do...the stuff that I love by the way. Every time I suggest something new he goes off on me and accuses me of cheating because he didn't "teach me" that. The only way I can c*m is by listening to Trey's music, but now he accuses me of fantasizing about Trey (which I am). If we can't listen to music during sex then, I won't get any fulfillment and the relationship will die. He even gets mad if he catches me "helping" myself along. Lately my ex has been calling just to check up on me because we were best friends before we dated and I want him back so badly. Sad thing is he is a bad boyfriend but a great lay. My current boyfriend is a great guy, but I need to be pleased. I hope I haven't confused you, but what should I do?


Frustrated Angel




Dear Frustrated Angel,


Simply put, stick with the current boyfriend. I know, I know, the ex is very tempting. However, sex can only take a relationship so far. If you don't have the chemistry and a strong foundation for a relationship outside of the bedroom, then everything else will fall apart. There is a reason why your ex is YOUR EX. You don't want to create a relationship where you have nothing in common but sex. As far as your current boyfriend, what I would suggest is having a sit-down with him and let him know what you are feeling. There is nothing wrong with  letting your boyfriend know what you like and teaching him those things. In return, ask him what he likes in the bedroom and how you can help him get along. Try reading books or watching videos to help the two of you along. Basically, figure out how sex can enhance the great relationship you guys already have. As Trey said it best, sex ain't better than love. So don't pass up on a good thing just because he has intimacy issues. Work with him. 


XOXO,

Triumphant Angel

Thursday, April 12, 2012

Regretful Angel

Dear Advice Angel,
I did some very sexual things with a guy I'd only been dating for a short time and I regret them. Now he is threatening to tell everyone what we did unless I continue to sleep with him. I realize that I'm not  into him the way I once was nad I have no interest in him at all. I do not want to have sex with him any longer, but I don't want my friends and family to find out all the things I did. I don't know what to do. I feel like I'm being forced to do this against my will. DO you have any advice at all for me?
Regretful Angel

Dear Regretful Angel,

I think that you need to tell him that you do not want to have sex with him. No guy needs to be threatening you to have sex with them. Also, I think you need to not talk to him anymore. If he is still threatening you, go to the police and say something or tell your family members what you did. They may get mad, but it's best to tell them the mistake you have done and get it off your chest. Don't feel bad about what you have done. Everyone has made mistakes in their life. Just remember that god forgives you for what you have done. I'm going to give you two verses out of the bible to read that will help you.  Deuteronomy 4:30-31 talks about repentance and 3 John 1:11 talks about peer pressure. If you need any other advice from me let me know. 

xoxo
Lissa89

Split Angel

Dear Advice Angel,
My parents are getting a divorce. They were btoh cheating on each other and I knew about it, but I kept my lips sealed. I'm 19 years old and in college so I feel like this shouldn't be affecting me, but it really is. I cry a lot because I feel like if I had said something to one of them to let them I know I knew about their infidelity I could have saved my family. Now they both hate each other. My mom is forcing my dad to move out of our house and it makes me so sad to see him hurting. He is moving into a small apartment not to far from where we live now and he wants me to move in with him. I love my dad and feel like I am closer to him, but I love my mother as well, but I don't want to hurt either one of them. This is a huge decision and I have no idea what to do. Where should I start?
Split Angel
 
Dear Split Angel,
 
First I would like to say your parents divorce is NOT your fault in no shape, way or form. You can have a sit down with both parents and hopefully you guys can talk over some of the issues of what is going on. No that's not going to change their decision of getting a divorce, but maybe your understanding of their divorce will be clearer to you. Even with a divorce your parents will still love you. You cant force unhappy people to be together. If you go live with your father you can still visit your mother. It's not like you want be able to see her anymore. The decision on who you choose to stay will not make them feel that you love the other parent more and i hope they understand you love the both of them and want them to be happy in the future. I hope I helped you a little.
 
XOXO, WISE ANGEL

To Non Denominational Angel


Dear Advice Angel,

I don't like going to church. I was raised in church my entire life and I love God, but now that my 18th birthday is coming up I'm not sure if I want to continue going. I only go now to please my family and I don't really enjoy it. To be honest, I'm not sure if I want to have a denomination at all. My church is very old fashioned and not a lot of young people attend. I feel out of place at times, like no one can relate to me. Also, I don't believe that you have to attend church in order to show your love for God. I want to talk to my parents about this, but i'm afraid they won't approve. What should I do? Non Denominational Angel 


Dear Non Denominational Angel,

As a young, Christian woman, I understand your issue. However, before quitting the whole idea of church altogether, try visiting other churches of different denominations first. I've tried this, and it worked out well. I ended up joining a church that was exciting, insightful and comfortable for me. And if church still doesn't work out for you (which is okay), try going to non denominational bible studies around your college campus. And most importantly, talk to your parents about your situation. They have probably been through the same situation before, and I'm sure they will understand. Remember this, we all have our own personal relationship with God, and only you and Him can define it. We all worship Him in different ways. You just need to find yours. Hope this helps!

XOXO,

Triumphant Angel

SECRETIVE ANGEL

Dear Advice Angel,
I'm 16, I'm pretty, and I have lots of friends. I'm dating a good looking guy and all my friends seem to like him. I have a great family and I'm on the right track in school, but I am completely miserable. I'm in love with my best friend since kindergarten. She goes to a different school than I do, so the friends I hangout with don't know about her. She has no idea about my boyfriend. I'm afraid to tell anyone that I'm really gay and that my girlfriend is my best friend. My family don't really remember her because they met her like 10 years ago. She and I have been an item for about 3 years, but secretly. I have never told anyone but her about my true feelings and she thinks I'm completely out of the closet like her. Typing this now makes me feel like a huge weight has been lifted off of my shoulders. My girlfriend wants to come to my 17th birthday party that my parents are throwing this summer and I know she wants me to introduce her as my girlfriend, but I don't think I can do it. I know if I don't though she will be pissed and probably breakup with me and I can't have that. I feel so torn I don't know what to do. To make matters worse, the guy im dating wants to meet my parents. Please tell me what to do.
Secretive Angel
 
 
Dear Secretive Angel,
 
First off I would like to say thank you for coming to us for advice. From my understanding you are more concerned on what others think of you. No your parents may not be happy with your decision of dating but it is your life. What's the point of living a secretive life? If your bestfriend is the person that makes you happy then be with her. Friends come and go if they are your real friends then no matter if you are gay or not they will still be there for you. Dont lead your boyfriend on. Let him know how you feel. I know it isnt easy telling people you are homosexual, and you are scared you will be judged, but holding it in is only making you more miserable. We live in a world were we are judged regaurdless anyway. You dont always have to tell people verbally about how you feel. Maybe you can let the ones that you want to know thru writing a letter just like you did us. (If that way is easier to you) I cant tell you wheather to choose your bf or gf but i can tell you to go with your heart and not by what you think others my say bout you if you choose either one. Dont rush yourself to make a decision either. Give yourself time to think everything over. Remember it's your life and you choose if you want to be happy or not by the decisions you make!
 
XOXO, WISE ANGEL

To: Uncomfortable Angel


Dear Advice Angel,
 
I need help. About 6 months ago I met this really nice guy. We hit it off and I really like him a lot. It didn't take long for the relationship to turn physical and let me tell you he is the shit in every sense of the word. He is trying for an intership this summer so for the past month he has been very distant. I mean don't get me wrong I hope he gets it, but damn you can't put it on a girl the way he did and then just back off. WTF! Last weekend I went to a party with some of my friends because I got tired of waiting on a call from him. I drank way more than I should have and had casual sex with a guy I didn't know. I can't remember if we used protection or not because I was so out of it, but now I have a strange smell and discharge coming from down there. I just got a text from my bf saying that he wanted to take me out this weekend and that he was sorry for ignoring me. Like I said, its been a month since our last romp so I knwo he wants to get it in. I am freaking the fuck out because I have no idea what to do or what it could be. I'm scared as hell to tell my mom and my sister would kill me. I don't know where to turn Angel, give me some advice.
 
Uncomfortable Angel


Dear Uncomfortable Angel,

First and foremost you should really go to the doctor before you EVEN think about having relations with your current boyfriend again. I know you scared as hell, so would I but I mean you gotta look out for yourself here hun just make sure nothing is wrong there. Take as many tests there is pregnancy std, etc I'm not trying to scare you just trying to look out for you angel. When you get the results you have to tell your boyfriend what happen don't keep it in cause it will only have matters worse trust me I been there and done that ( me personally getting cheated on )  the whole cheating thing isn't something you wanna hear but I rather hear it from the person's mouth then someone else. Tell him he felt like he was putting you on the back burner you felt alone and all you wanted was his attention that he was being distant and you couldn't understand why he was doing it. If he gets mad and needs a few days to think about the situation where you cheated give it to him let him cool off. After a week ask if he wants to talk, and let him know you still want to be with him he means something to you, and you want this relationship to last. Don't be scare if you have anymore questions we are here to help you, I really hope this works out for the best angel. 

xoxo
IdolizedAngel

to anonymous angel

if i gone meet the right person someone someday cause its hard well its like i'm wasting time



Dear Anonymous Angel,
I dont know what you are asking but in a sense you came here for help and im goin to help you best i can. First off you are here for a reason so you arent wasting your time. The bible states in Romans chapter 8 verse 28 in that we are all called according to his purpose. So God has given you a purpose on this earth. I wish you would have asked a direct question but from what I read I would suggest counseling and sitting down with a professional and really discuss your feelings and problems with them. Call the Cousenling and Crisis Hotline at these two numbers 1800-448-3000 or 1800-448-1833 (TDD) and they will be gladly available to help. You can always come back here to ask questions as well and i will be glad to help you. please dont feel down or depressed because being in a relationship or having someone doesnt defne who you are as a person. So im here for ya..






xoxo,
bballmypassion<3

Response to Lost Angel

Dear Advice Angel,


Where do I start? I'm not happy with the way my life is going at the moment and I don't know what to do. I'm not sure if I like my job anymore. I love my boyfriend and we have been together for 5 years, but I don't know if I want to marry him. If you can't tell I'm an older Angel and I feel embarrassed asking you ladies for help. I'm 25 and have graduated from college, but I feel like I'm not sdoing my heart's work. I had to turn somewhere though because I feel so lost. I just am so unsure about what I want out of life. Do you have any advice for me?


Lost Angel
 
Dear Lost Angel,
For starters i want to say you came to the right place.:) I feel like you are going through a mid-age crisis where you are trying to fully figure out what you want now that you are out of school and working. I would say talk to your boyfriend and together see where you want to go as in if marriage is the next step for you. Dont feel embarrasssed we are all in the helping business together and I want the best for you. I suggest you write out a Pro and Con list of things you want to achieve now and within the next 5-10 years. Have your boyfriend do the same and One night after dinner compare notes and listen to each other and go from therein figuring out what to do next. As far as your job goes, if you really dont like it dont leave just yet but start looking for another job that you feel will suit your needs and will make you feel comfortable. When I was looking for a job I was looking at the aspect of what makes me happy, what do i like to do. For me that was working with people and working with children and luckily I'm blessed to have two jobs where im doing something i love to do. :)So try that and see if that helps you and of course im always a email or question away ;)....
 
 
xoxo,
bballmypassion <3

To Scared Angel


Dear Advice Angel,


I have a terrible secret that I am tired of keeping. My step dad comes into my room some nights and makes me do things to him. He has penetrated me, but he makes me do other stuff and I'm afraid sex will be next. My mother hasn't had much luck with finding a nice man so what my step dad says is gold in this house. I know that if I tell her she won't believe me or nothing will happen. I'm almost 18 and I am going to live with my real dad for the summer so I'm thinking of telling him, but I'm afraid what he might do. I'm scared Angel and I don't know what my next step should be. Please help me.


Scared Angel
 
Hi Scared Angel,
WOW..is what i thought when i first began to read this. You need to tell someone about this because your step dad is hurting you and needs to be punished big time. Ive never been in this situation before but from I have heard this damages both people. I encourage you to tell your mom, dad ,teacher somebody needs to know. Im glad you told us but You gotta tell your dad, the longer you wait the more your step dad has control over you and he could be doing this to other kids as well. This is abuse sexual abuse. If you cant tell your parent you can call the National Sexual Abuse Hotline and talk with someone about it 1800-656-4673.it is free and confidential. I encourage you to call this number and i hope and pray that you get through this situation. Im here and a email away skyangel@heardmag.com or riahbee323@yahoo.com please email me if you need further help or guidance.love you and praying :0
 
 
xoxo,
bballmypassion <3
Dear Advice Angel,
 
I've been n a relationship for quite some time now and things are ok but, I want to have sex with this otha guy but is not attracted to him. Do you think I'm wrong if I do it?? I kno it's wrong but I just wanna try him out. Been wanting to do it for a long time now!!
 
Curious Angel
 
Dear Curious Angel,
 
Help me to understand something, why would you want to sleep with a guy if you aren't attracted to him? Do you think if you sleep with him your feelings may change? Are things not going as well as you would like them to in your current relationship? I ask all of these things because something must be underlying in your relationship that isn't right. While we are involved with someone else its completely normal to be curious about other people and have your mind linger off, but you have to weigh the pros and cons of doing the "dip". How would you feel if your guy did the "dip" on you? Wouldn't that hurt you? Wouldn't you rather he just break up with you than deceive you? Karma can be a bad thing and I don't want you to risk that. Is it that you are feeling bored in your current relationship? Why don't you try to spice things up in that department! Toys, new positions, movies, and even fruit {look it up :D} can do wonders for your sex life. There is nothing wrong with having fantasies or day dreaming about someone else (Trey has been in my thoughts for a while and I'm married), its when you act on those feelings that problems come in. If you really can't shake that feeling of wanting to know what the other guy is like then maybe you should think about whether you should be in a relationship at all. Remember the grass is not always greener on the other side. All in all I'm here for you Angel, whenever you need me.
 
XOXO,
 
Advice Angel 

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Dear Advice Angel,

I hate my life. My grades are horrible, I seem to annoy my family, and I have no friends. It has gotten to the point that I no longer want to live. I can't seem to do anything right and I just don't see the brighter side. I have tried countless times to end my life, but nothing seems to work. Whats the use of living if I only get in the way? No one would miss me anyway.

Done Angel


Dear Done Angel,

Reading your question I am in tears because I was you when I was younger. All during 9th and 10th grade I felt like no one wanted me around because I wasn't that popular. I wasn't what society would call "beautiful" and that did a number on my self esteem. It wasn't until I took the time to love myself and appreciate who I was and what I had to offer that things started to turn around. Angel, you are beautiful, inside and out. Never let anyone tell you anything different. As for your grades, don't freak out. You have teachers who care about you and tutors who are there to help. Those grades can be turned around in no time. Don't be afraid to ask for help with school because 9 times out of 10 you are not the only person who is struggling. I don't know everything that's happening, but I bet your family isn't annoyed with you at all. Why do you feel that way? If you are the baby of the family it is easy to feel that you are in the way because you don't have as many life experiences as your siblings and it is hard to relate to each other, but that doesn't mean that they love you any less. In fact I know your family would be devastated if something happened to you. If you don't like how something is going in your life then change it! As far as friends are concerned, do what I did; find an after school club that you are interested in. You need to hang with people who have the same interests as you do. That's how you make friends, by being yourself and doing things that you like to do. I am here for you ANYTIME that you need me. No matter what the question, I'm only an email away (adviceangel@yahoo.com). Keep your head up Angel and don't cut yourself short by trying to end your life. You have so much to live for and you never know what God has in store for you. If you ever feel like you can't take it and you need someone to talk to right away please call The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255). Please call this line before you make any decisions. They are here to help you no matter how small you think the problem is.

XOXO,

Advice Angel

Weaved Out Angel


Dear Advice Angel,
I have been wearing weaves and wigs for about 3 years now. I don't have very long hair and long hair seemed to be in so I stuck with it. None of my friends know that I wear weaves or wigs. They think I just have nice hair. I have an after school job and I spend all of my money on different kinds of hair. My favorite cousin is coming into town and she knows about my weaves. She wants to hangout with me and my friends and I'm afraid that she will say something. My best friend told her about a pool party that she is having and now my cousin wants to go. I told my friend I couldn't swim, but the real reason I don't want to go is because I don't want to get my hair wet because it is so expensive. My cousin and I used to swim all the time. I don't know what to do, please help me. 
Weaved Out Angel


Dear Weaved Out Angel,

All I can tell you is to be honest about your real hair. If u lie once you always have to add on to that lie to keep it goin, and from there things get confusing and fustrating. . I have short have and I LOVE and EMBRASS it. If they are your real friends then they will still be around when the weave is gone. Your hair is not the reasons they are your friends. But if you want to keep the lie going just tell your cousin to keep her mouth shut about it :) But i doubt you would loose a friend over lying about your real hair though!


XOXO, WISE ANGEL 

Dear Advice Angel
My family is always so demanding of me. Im only 14 and right now I just want to be a normal teen. I don't want to think about college, my career, or the next 5 years. How can I tell my parents that I want to enjoy my youth without sounding like im ungrateful?
Confused Angel


Dear Confused Angel,

We are going through the same thing !! Hun and trust me it's not all glitter and gold. Don't let your parents nag you on and on about your choices in life, it IS YOUR LIFE and not theirs. College may not be for everyone and that's perfectly fine but don't just give up and say you done cause you never know you may chance your mind about it. Yeah we know parents can be a little be over doing it and that's just love, but if you wanna wait for college and have fun be a TEEN then do it yeah they may not be happy with your choice but they have to learn to let it go and love you no matter what. Maybe later on down the road you will eventually have the talk with your folks about your career and what you want to do about college. Remember to tell them how you feel you just want to be a normal kid the talk bout career choices will come up soon but just not now mama. 

xoxo
IdolizedAngel

to shy angel

Dear Advice Angel,
I am completely in love with this guy in my physics class. He is perfect from head to toe. He always makes good grades, his wardrobe is amazing, and he keeps the class laughing. He is respectful and he has an amazing smile. The problem is he isn't the most attractive guy in the world. In fact, he really isn't that cute at all, but there is something about him that makes me crazy. We are really good friends and I guess I'm scared to tell him how I feel. He doesn't have a girlfriend because all the girls in my class seem to stay away from him. I confided in one of my friends that I'm kinda feeling him and she told me if I talked to him it would be the worst mistake of my life because he is so ugly. I don't want my friends to laugh at me but I really like this guy. I don't even know if he likes me. Please tell me what to do.
Shy Angel

Hey Shy Angel,
I know what you are going  through. Sometimes its not always about appearance with a guy its about the emotional connect you have with him. Let your friends talk the decision is ultimately yours to  make. So if you feelin him Girl go Head and tell him how you feel and trust me it wont be the biggest mistake of your life, it will be the Best choice you ever made :)....You never know he could be waiting on you to tell him anyway..SOOOOOO tell him and then tell me how it goes..Im here for u angel and will support you.:) You will always have me as a friend to help...Angel Love<3....Hope this helps you
 
xoxo,
bballmypassion <3

Tuesday, April 10, 2012

To: Offended Angel


Dear Advice Angel,
I have been dating a nice guy for about 3 weeks. I like him a lot and he is very nice and fine. he does his thang in othr places too, but his breath is horrible! I sometimes give him a piece of gum whenever I eat a piece just because I can't stand him trying to kiss me with that stank breath. I want to tell him, but I lke having a boyfriend and making my single friends mad. I don't want him to leave me or get mad at me. What can I do? Is there a sutle way for me to tell him that his breath offends me?

Offended Angel

Dear Offended Angel,

Well you are in a relationship and the MOST IMPORTANT thing in a relationship is honestly. I mean just tell him how you feel it's not good to go on like nothing is bothering you it's best to be real and tell him how it is. If he can't respect that then that's his choice but I'm sure you would want someone to tell you what they feel in a relationship it's not a good enough reason to break up with you if he does then its pity and he's not worth you time or love. It's best to hear it from his girl then some random person on the street who could hurt his feelings. Be real is the key if he can't appreciate that then that's his lost. You can always come back if you anymore questions you can always come back. 

xoxox
IdolizedAngel

To: Stumped Angel



Dear Advice Angel,
I'm 16 and I have two wonderful younger sisters who are 12 and 13. My 13 yr old sister just joined the Pom Pom squad and I am over joyed for her, but she smells. She comes in and takes a shower right after practice every night, but something isn't going right because she still smells badly. I don't want to hurt her feelings because she is very sensitive, but I also don't want her to be teased at school either. My mom told me to talk to her and when I asked her what to say she told me to think of something.This is really bothering me because I don't want her to get mad and not talk to me anymore. Please help me.
Stumped Angel

Dear Stumped Angel,

Took me awhile to try to think of the best way to have a one on one talk with your sister. Get your mom involved she needs to be in there some kind of way, after all she did give birth to her. Just come off easy and try to think of what you would want someone to say to you if you had some odor coming from you. Have a spa day make her feel comfortable don't come off as you being mean she is your sister and you love her just wanna show that you care about her. Take your time just tell her that maybe she should try new shower gels that's only for her she may feel a little uncomfortable with the situation but its better to hear it from the people you love, then someone who doesn't care about you. I hope this works if not you can always come back to me I'm here to help love.

xoxox
IdolizedAngel

Crushing Angel

Dear Advice Angel,
I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 months and things are going great, but there is this new dude that moved in down the street from me and he is F-I-N-E! I see him every morning and he always smiles. For the past week whenever my boyfriend asks me about coming over to hangout I don't want him to because I want to see if my new neighbor will be outside. I kinda want to chat him up because he looks so good to me, but I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend either. How can I tell if this new dude is into me and if he is how can I break it to my boyfriend that we need to cool it down a bit? I think 4 months is a long time and I don't want to limit my options.
Crushing Angel
 
 
Dear Crushing Angel,
 
Well I understand you want to keep your options open, but if you are happy with your boyfriend then stay with him. Dont give up something good for something that appears to be good. Looks can be decieving. You can still be friends with the other dude until you get to now him better. Dont move things to fast. Try to stick it out with your boyfriend if he's the one treating you right. And if  you do get more in touch with your neighbor let him know you have a boyfriend. That way there is no confusion. Also if you want to keep your options open dont get in a relationship keep everything strictly friendly. Flirt but keep it PG 13 lol. Keep it lady like :) Maybe then you can find the one to scoop u up and your Options will be "Closed".
 
XOXO, WISE ANGEL
 

Response to Rebellious Angel


Dear Advice Angel,
My mom and I do not get along. She yells at me constantly about the smallest things. She HATES the relationships I have with my Angel sisters and the last time Trey came to my city I had to lie about where I was just so I could attend the show. I'm not sure if she is jealous or what, but her being mean to me doesn't make me want to spend anymore time with her at all. I am 17 and I love my mother, but when I turn 18 and move away for college I don't see myself visiting very often and I hate that. I need my relationship to change with my mom, but I'm not sure how to go about it. Any advice?
Rebellious Angel
 
Dear Rebellious Angel,
After reading this a couple times through, I find myself in your shoes alil bit. My mom doesnt yell at me all the time but we do have our differences but I love my mom as well. i would say to seek couseling if talking your feelings out with your mom isn't working. She could just be protective that you are devoting your time to trey and angels that your mom hasn't met yet. i dont know the whole story but maybe explain to her the relationship you have between your angel sisters and see if that works. I do think you should try to keep in contact with your mom even when you go to college because I'm afraid if you disconnect yourself from her after you leave for school you wont be able to get that relationship you truly want with her. A bible verse that pops in my head is Ephesians 6:1 Which says, to obey your parents in the Lord for this is right and to honor them regardless of how they treat you. So do the best you can to honor your mom and express to her your feelings. She may feel neglected that you have given your heart to Trey and your angel sisters but the only way to fully work it out is to talk it out whether thats through writing a note or letter, or sitting face to face or even in a cousneling session. I hope this helps you and you can begin to have a better and healthier and longer relationship with your mom.:).I am here to help whenever you need it..
 
 
xoxo,
bballmypassion <3

Confused Angel

Dear Advice Angel,
I've been dealing with a situation for quite some time now, in which I am stuck. I still have a crush on this boy who is my ex and I'm not sure how he feels. I've gone through periods in which I take 21 days to have no contact with him, thinking I needed to break a bad habit, but I always come out still thinking of him. I have no idea how he feels, but part of me thinks he just wants that "one thing" seeing that he tried to get it in a previous relationship. Once I refused to give it up, he acted like everything was okay for a week or two, and then broke up with me, saying he lost feelings. I don't see how this could be if every time we see each other he flirts with me or even says he has feelings still. Even then, he never makes the move to try it again. I'm so confused, and I think I've done all I can by expressing my feelings and suggesting ways we can figure out if this will work. Now I'm stuck and still crushing more and more each day. I don't understand why I still like him if I feel like it's all games. I need advice.

-Confused Angel
Dear Confused Angel,
You are right, it is all a game to him. I have been there and played this game too many times to sit and watch a fellow angel go through the same thing. First, I commend you for trying to rid yourself of him. When we have a crush, it can be very hard to leave the situation alone and let nature take its course, especially when it is an ex. My first bit of advice would be to get out there and date, date, date! I think you may have your ex bf on the brain because you are not leaving your options open. My mother always told me to get over one guy you have to date another. This guy is an ex for a reason so is getting back with him really worth it? Once you find someone else that you like you may realize that what you saw in your ex really wasn't that great after all. Also, it seems like you found out what kind of guy he really was once you told him the nookie wasn't happening. Now ask yourself, do you really want to have a bf who only has "that" on his mind? Another great way to forget about him is keep yourself busy. Start a new hobby, take up a sport, or make time for your friends. Once your ex sees that you aren't thinking about him he will get the picture and the games will cease. I hope this helped and if you need anything else I'm here for you.
XOXO,
Advice Angel

Monday, April 9, 2012

To: Young Angel


Dear Advice Angel,


 My dad says that Trey Songz is too sexual and he won't let me listen to his music anymore. I'm embarrassed to say this, but I had to download Inevitable because my dad wouldn't let me buy it. I can't talk to my mom about it because she always agrees with whatever my dad says and my brother laughs at me. I will be 14 in two weeks, but I'm still treated like a 3 year old. I want to be a supportive angel, but I'm not if I can't go to the concerts or buy the cds. What else can I do? 


Young Angel



Dear Young Angel,


I know that you are growing up and want to listen to your choice of music. But in this case (and you may not want to hear this), your parents may be right. As much as we all love Trey, his lyrics are very mature, too mature for a 13-14 year old. However, there is an alternative to this. Maybe you should sit down and talk to your parents about possibly coming to a compromise. You could suggest buying the clean version of his CDs, for starters. That way, you can enjoy his music and your parents can feel comfortable about you listening to it. As far as the concerts....yeah, maybe you need to wait a bit, at least until you're a little bit older. Trust me, his concerts get too hot for me to handle myself, and I'm 23! (LOL) Don't worry, you'll have plenty of time to enjoy him and his music. At least, you can start by having an open conversation with your parents. Who knows, what they say may surprise you. Good luck!


XOXO,

Triumphant Angel

So Unpretty

Dear Advice Angel,

I feel so disgusting! Every time I look in the mirror I want to cry. I hate my bumpy skin, my limp hair, and fat ass body. No guys want to date me and no girls want to be my friend. I just want to be accepted.

Ugly Angel


Dear Not Ugly Angel,

Do not put yourself down anymore!! I can't have that!! I chose not to call you "Ugly Angel" because you aren't that, I guarantee it! You are gorgeous and until you believe that no matter what you change about yourself you will always feel the same. You didn't say how old you are, but if you are between the ages of 12-17 chances are you're going through puberty and I'm sure you know those awkward looks won't last. Your skin won't always be pimply, your hair won't always be flat (even though some natural hair people would KILL for flat hair), and your body won't always be thick (thick is in by the way). What I'm trying to say is if you don't like something about yourself then change it, but you have to stop calling out all of your faults. NO ONE IS PERFECT (not even Trey remember the Ustream when he used the Clean and Clear on his face)! Try out a dermatologist for your skin, pump it up spritz is great for the hair, and at least 30 minutes of some kind of physical activity everyday can do wonders for the body!! When you have more confidence in yourself the guys will flock to you and all the girls will want to be your friend. If you ever need anymore advice, you know where to find me ;)

XOXO
Advice Angel