tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25573667292477823422024-03-08T02:46:45.620-08:00This is a place where Trey's Angels can come and seek advice!Send all questions to adviceangel@yahoo.comAdvice Angelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02219218126033125853noreply@blogger.comBlogger51125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2557366729247782342.post-3734333029170584382012-06-10T15:25:00.002-07:002012-06-10T15:25:41.979-07:00To: Embarrassed Angel<br />
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<span style="background-color: black; color: #ea9999; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;"><b>My boyfriend is like...blah to me right now! His hair is a mess, his clothes awful, and the shoes...don't get me started. I have tried to tell him that his looks have got to change because I consider myself a fashionista and my friends are clowing the sh*t out of me whenever they see him. He is really embarrassing me and I'm close to breaking up with him, but I love him and he is a great guy. From one funky dressed Angel to another...HELP ME!!!</b></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: black; color: #f4cccc; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;"><b>I can understand the issue you're going through. I have HAD a few issues in the past with boyfriends. If I learned one thing, it's that guys are stubborn, and that they don't like to change much. However, there are ways to help him become convinced that a style change is beneficial to both him and you. It's key to start off slow. Maybe take him to the mall and give him some suggestions. Say something like, "Hey babe, I saw something at this store that would look hot on you." Or you could say, "Baby, how bout you check this haircut out. It frames your sexy face better." That way, not only will you help him become a better dresser, you're also stroking his ego (something that guys LOVE). The object of this is not to change him, but to highlight the great things your man already has. It's all about confidence and pride. He has it within him. Now, it's up to you to help him bring that to the surface. Good luck!</b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;"><br /></span></div>Paige Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11180343390763361312noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2557366729247782342.post-9461749212636614852012-06-08T11:34:00.002-07:002012-06-08T18:03:50.406-07:00Flabby Angel<div>
Dear Advice Angel,</div>
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am completely in love with my boyfriend. We have been together for 4
years and things are great, but sometimes he talks about my weight. He
sometimes calls me names and tells me that I need to lose, but he never
tries to help. He isn't the skinniest guy himself and whenever I suggest
him trying to diet with me he gets offended. I cannot do this by myself
Angel. I know that I need to lose weight, but damn I need some help.
What should I do?</span></div>
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Dear Flabby Angel</div>
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Why don't you try to ask your friends to help you out. They may help you to lose the weight since your boyfriend does not want to help. Show him that you are able to lose weight without his help. If your friends won't help you out, try and tell your boyfriend that it would be best if they both try to lose weight for both of you guys health and to try and go on a diet with you also. If you need any other advice let me know. </div>
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<br /></div>Lissa07http://www.blogger.com/profile/07009533191936997987noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2557366729247782342.post-29985260158373063782012-06-07T07:47:00.002-07:002012-06-07T07:47:48.533-07:00Lonely AngelDear Advice Angel,<br />
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I'm 17 and I will be a senior in high school this year. High school has not been my best years like everyone said they would be. I hardly have any friends, I don't do anything on the weekends, and my dating life is not there. I'm miserable because I feel like everyone is laughing at me. I'm not sure what to do. This is my last year of high school and I want to reinvent myself so that I'm not going to the prom alone. Help me Angel.<br />
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Lonely Angel<br />
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Dear Lonely Angel,<br />
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I was you about 1,000 years ago when I was a high school senior (only 7 years lol). The solution to your problem is very simple...GET ACTIVE!! There are countless clubs at your school that are just begging for you to join! You have to find something that you are good at and find a club that would benefit from your talents. If you can't find a club then create one! I bet if you join a club there are going to be people there whom you haven't met. The conversation starter will be an wasy one since you guys already have the club in common. There goes your new friends as well!! Now for the weekends, volunteering is amazing and it will help your college applications if you are going that route. You can also meet new people this way. You have to get out there and mingle! Sitting at home every weekend you will never find new friends. Guys love, love, love confident women...THIS IS SOOOOO YOU!! You have to show people that you are fun and that you can take it or leave it and this kind of attitude is going to have the guys flocking to you. I hope I helped Angel and I'm always here for you!!<br />
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And FYI College is really your best years so get ready!!! ;)<br />
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XOXO,<br />
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Advice AngelAdvice Angelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02219218126033125853noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2557366729247782342.post-15877094075028679792012-04-24T11:01:00.001-07:002012-04-24T11:01:17.287-07:00Pissed Off Angel<div id="yui_3_2_0_1_13352900460582731">
Dear Advice Angel,</div>
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I have given up on trying to be followed by Trey on twitter. With the
exception of just a few days ago, Trey seemed to only follow strippers or exotic
looking chicks and I am neither of those. I am an average looking girl with a
flat chest and no ass. I'm dark skinned and I don't have long hair. I know that
Trey would never look twice at me, but that doesn't stop me from spending my
money on M & G tickets for every show...like an idiot. I have asked trey on
NUMEROUS occasions to follow me, but he never does. He always says he will, but
he doesn't and I'm sick of it. I know he doesn't follow because he doesn't find
me attractive and thats what hurts the most. I may not be model pretty, but my
money spends the same as theirs. I'm dedicated to him and I deserve a follow. I
think I may just forget trying for a follow and denounce my Angel ship. Any
advice?</div>
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Dear Pissed Off Angel,</div>
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Im in the same boat as you. I always thought I would have been followed by trey by now too.</div>
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I would say be patient as you possibly can , i do think its not fair as angels we have to keep waiting for our follows from trey but he is a busy man and has 4 million people following him that he can't see each one. I would sugget writing him a letter thats what I did and asking him to follow me, although i'm still waiting. I do think its not right that he follows alot of strippers and models but he is human you have to remember that. He is not perfect and sometimes doesn't see what we angels want him to see. I do not think you should denounce your angel membership because you never know what Trey may do. He is very spontaneous in a way that will make you forget why you were mad at him. So just be patient your time is coming. Next time you see him juss tell him to have twitter open or write him alil note saying follow me on twitter please. I guarantee you will have a follow and a hug in no time. Baby Steps as I call it. He said my name march 8,2012 so Im determined to get my follow soon.:) I hope this advice helps you and im here if you need anything else ;)</div>
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bballmypassion<3</div>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2557366729247782342.post-81338872432746002492012-04-22T17:08:00.001-07:002012-04-22T17:08:06.064-07:00Obsessed Angel<div>
<span>Dear Advice Angel,</span></div>
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think I'm obsessed with Trey Songz. I know what you may be
thinking,you're an Angel so how can you be obsessed, but I honestly
think that I am. I love everything about him and his singing drives me
crazy! I've been dating a guy for about 3 months and we get along well,
but lately he has been complaining that all I ever listen to is Trey.
Whenever he is in my car I always blast Trey,but thats because I love
him. Of course I deny it, but I think he may be right. I fantasize about
Trey all day everyday. I cant help it, he is so fine. My bf said that
if I dont stop checking for Trey so much that he is
going to dump me. What should I do? I love Trey and I'm not interested
in leaving him.</span></div>
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<span>Well, I have the same problem, but I'm not obsessed with Trey. My bf knows I like Trey, but I don't talk to him about it. You have to ask yourself, do you want to be single all your life or do you want to be with your bf? If I were you, I would chose your bf because, Trey is just a person you fantasize about. It's not like any of us angels are gonna ever be with him. Plus guys don't like us liking a guy celebrity like that. I can tell you from experience. Do you love your bf? Do you want to stay with him? These are the questions you have to ask yourself. So if you can try and do fun stuff with your bf to get your mind off Trey. That's what me and my bf do. As far as you listening to Trey, your bf shouldn't have a problem with it. You can listen to whatever you want to listen too. He's gonna have to accept the fact that you are gonna listen to Trey's music whether he likes it or not. Even if(or when) yall get married you gonna still listen to him. So, just try and cut down on thinking about Trey so much. I know its gonna be hard, but I have confidence in you that you can. If you need any other advice, let me know and I will try and answer it the best way I can.</span></div>
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<span>Lissa89</span></div>Lissa07http://www.blogger.com/profile/07009533191936997987noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2557366729247782342.post-8506974009176935422012-04-19T10:32:00.000-07:002012-04-19T10:32:26.278-07:00To Confused Angel<div id="yui_3_2_0_1_1334856325841114">
Dear Advice Angel,</div>
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I have been with the same guy for about a year now and we get along well. He is a bit more reserved than I am but its all good. I went to his family reunion three weeks ago and I met one of his cousins. He was hella cute and we ended up laughing and talking half the time I was there. My boyfriend thinks its great that I am getting along with his family, but he doesn't know that his cousin and I have been texting each other nonstop since we met. I even ended a date early with my bf so that I could go catch a movie with the cousin. I like the cousin so much but I dont want to hurt my bf. What should I do?</div>
Confused Angel<br />
<br />Dear Confused Angel,<br />
Im glad you came here for help. I really think you should talk to your BF about your feelings.It seems as though you have lost interest in your current relationship and are ready to move on. You may not want to hear this but maybe you should break up with your BF and just be friends because the situation could get worse if you and the cousin get serious..Does the cousin know you have a Bf? if not you need to let him know that way you dont end up hurt in the end. Communication makes everything else easier. ;) I hope everything works out for you, keep me posted if you need more help ur more than welcome to come back.<br />
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xoxo,<br />
bballmypassion<3Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2557366729247782342.post-72627492403930887882012-04-19T10:24:00.000-07:002012-04-19T10:24:46.181-07:00NO Baby AngelDear Advice Angel,<br />
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My husband is a great man. He is an excellent provider and he treats me very nice. Lately he has been talking about having children and i dont think that would be such a bad idea, but all he does in his free time is play video games. I mean he gets pissed off if I ask him to do something else. He is almost 30 years old and I think games are little to childish for him. How can I tell him to cut it out without being mean?</div>
No Baby Angel<br /><br />Dear No baby Angel,<br />
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First off thanks for bringing your question here, and the best thing to do is to sit down with your husband and discuss with him how important it is that you would love children. You can just ask him politely to cut back on playing video games and maybe focus moreon the important things in life. Video games will always be there but the times to focus on having children may not come as often as you want due to work and other things that may arise. So sit down havea nice talk with your husband over dinner about your feelings. I hope this helps.;) and come back if you need more help <br />
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xoxo,<br />
bballmypassion <3Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2557366729247782342.post-26879794862805012982012-04-17T22:22:00.004-07:002012-04-17T22:24:08.799-07:00To: Shamed Angel<div style="font-size: 13px;">
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<span style="background-color: black; color: #ea9999; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">Yikes! His dancing is THAT bad? (No disrespect to Trey, but....you know. LOL) Well, since flat out telling him is not working, just try showing him in a smooth and easy way. When you dance with him, just ease into getting him to do what you want. Like, slowly back up on him, hold his hands and dance on him. That way, you both would be technically dancing without the embarrassment. And if that doesn't work out, just have fun with him anyway. It's your prom, and the most important thing about prom is to just have fun with your boyfriend. If you can't beat him, might as well join him. Happy dancing!</span></div>
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<br />Paige Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11180343390763361312noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2557366729247782342.post-15037395574247954462012-04-17T20:20:00.001-07:002012-04-17T20:21:28.741-07:00Wish I Were Deaf AngelDear Advice Angel,<br />
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My boyfriend is in a band and he
really loves it. In fact, he is one of the only guys I know that loves
Trey Songz for his drive and determination. You can't imagine how much
that turns me on, but there is one problem, my bf SUCKS as a singer! Omg
Angel he sounds like a drowning bird trying to sing. As Angels, we all
know how much Trey,s high notes SLAY, but whenever my bf tries to
imitate I cringe! He is thinking of singing SABTL in the upcoming talent
show but I dont want him to because I dont want him to embarrass
himself. What should I do???</div>
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Dear Wish I Were Deaf Angel,<br />
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Lol. When I got this question, I laughed to myself because, I understand what you mean. My bf thinks he can sing too, but I tell him all the time that he can't sing. Lol. But, he never listen's to me. Since your his gf, be honest with him and tell him that he cannot sing. Don't say it in a mean or rude way. Say it in a nice way. If he get's mad, then one day when you catch him singing, record him and then show it to him. He probably will then realize how much he can't sing. Then suggest to him to do something else in the talent show. If he can't think of something else to do in the talent show, try and ask him what he likes to do. Whether it's dancing, playing an instrument, etc.... If you need any other advice, feel free to ask me anything. I will answer it the best way I can.<br />
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xoxo<br />
Lissa89Lissa07http://www.blogger.com/profile/07009533191936997987noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2557366729247782342.post-59705538992411898692012-04-17T20:10:00.002-07:002012-04-17T20:10:30.609-07:00Dear Advice Angel,<br />
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I love school! Im very smart, involved with school, and ahead of the game. i have a plan for my life and so far I am really sticking to it. Lately i have wanted to add some excitement to my life.Being smart and active in school has not made me very popular with the other kids so im kinda a loner. the school elections are coming up an i would love to run for an office but im afraid no one will vote for me. Any advice for me?<br />
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Unsure Angel<br />
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Dear Unsure Angel,<br />
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I do have some advice for you...YOU HAVE TO RUN!!! You have to try Angel because if you dont try you will never know if you could have won. We were alike in school. I was kinda a nerd, but I wanted to run for class office as a senior. I had some really mean b*tches run against me and they made the time that i ran a living hell...but I BEAT THEM! Turns out everyone was tired of their stuck up a$$es! This could be your moment Angel and you have to take it. Make sure that you have a list of things that you would like to see changed and stick with it! There could be more students who think exactly like you. Most importantly HAVE FUN! Im here for you Angel, anytime you need me. Now get to writing that campaign speech!<br />
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XOXO,<br />
Advice Angel<br />
<br />Advice Angelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02219218126033125853noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2557366729247782342.post-82310570490133480412012-04-17T17:17:00.003-07:002012-04-17T17:17:32.397-07:00To: Not Hair Ready Angel<br />
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My mother has been a beautician for 20 something years and she is very good at what she does. She always talks about retiring and how she cant wait for me to take her place. Now that I graduate high school in May she wants me to go to beauty school but that isnt what I want to do. Matter of fact I dont even want to stay in town. Im ready to move and i no longer want to attend school until im ready. Is there a nice way I can tell her that hair is not my thing?</div>
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<span style="color: #454545; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 12px;">Dear Angel, well i mean just be real with your mom that you don't wanna hurt her feelings but being a beautician just isn't something you have your career set on.. And that school will be set on hold you just want to live your life with a little fun but tell her that will go to school eventually just not right away, and away from home suggest that maybe you will help her out from time to time when it comes to doing people hair so she won't feel alone. I hope this works out for you angel and remember if you ever need more advice don't be afraid to ask that question..</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: black; color: yellow; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">This is so hard for me to explain so I will just start at the beginning. When I was 13 i wanted to be grown so badly. I acted out towards my parents, I cut up in school, and I dated much older guys. I was so popular and all the guys wanted me. The oldest guy I dated was 19. And he was so fine. I lost my virginity to him after only 3 months of dating and he quickly kicked me to the curb. About 6 months later i found out that I was HIV positive. I tried talking to him but he denied that it was from him cause he was clean. He tarnished my name and told the entire school that I was easy. I ended up having to move. I told my parents that I was raped because i didnt want them to know their daughter was a slut. After 5 years of punishing myself i finally met someone great. I love him and things are getting serious. I know he is going to bring up sex soon and Im nervous. I dont know how to tell him and Im afraid to lose him. My health is under control because i take my medication as directed. Please help me because I dont know what to do.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: black; color: #9fc5e8; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">Wow, this is a tough subject. However, I will try to give you the best advice I can. First off, it takes a lot of courage to write in about this situation because HIV is still such a taboo subject. I applaud you for telling us here about your situation. So now, it's time for you to apply the same courage into telling your boyfriend. Tell him about your entire situation. And yes, that includes your sexual history. Not only is it fair for him to know, it is also the law to tell every potential sexual partner about your HIV status and how you are taking control of it. This doesn't mean that sex is out of the question. You just have to wrap it up and take extra precautions. Most importantly, it's about being truthful to yourself, to your boyfriend and to your family. Yes, I'm suggesting talking to your parents as well because if you don't, it's going to eat you up inside for the rest of your life. Just note that your boyfriend may not give you the reaction you want, but at least you give him the right for him to make that choice. Stay strong, my sista.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;"><b style="background-color: black;">Triumphant Angel</b></span></div>Paige Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11180343390763361312noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2557366729247782342.post-28573999015502496542012-04-17T14:27:00.000-07:002012-04-17T14:31:30.549-07:00Unsatisfied Angel<span style="color: blue;"><br /></span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">I read comments from other advice that you gave another angel who had the problem of her boyfriend being too big. Well my problem is the exact opposite. I love my boyfriend to death, but his d*$k is just too small. I dont feel anything when we f$#k. Do you have any advice for me?</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Well ummm... Where do i start from?? Well u can talk to him and tell him bout how you feel about that situation. That way yall can talk bout other things he can try to perform better in the bedroom. Or maybe he can take some sort of d*$k growin pill. I really hope i helped you in some kind of way. :/</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">XOXO, WISE ANGEL</span></div>WISE ANGELhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16493166816771180486noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2557366729247782342.post-40782901138338132012-04-17T13:39:00.001-07:002012-04-17T13:39:33.954-07:00Unhealthy AngelDear Advice Angel,<br />
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I have been married for one year and I am
completely in love. I used to be a skinny young thang back in high school, but
of course that was from an eating disorder. I know that my hubby loves me, but
lately he has been making small remarks about my weight and it is starting to
get to me. They arent rude remarks and they are all true but it still hurts. Its
so hard for me to lose weight without purging and the stress of work, no money,
and now his remarks arent helping. He is a big guy as well and its not like he
tries to workout with me. We also eat cheap fast food a lot because thats what
we can afford. Is there anything that i can do to calm my nerves or help me lose
weight without reverting to my old ways?</div>
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Unhealthy Angel<br />
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Dear Unhealthy Angel,<br />
WoW, your story is very real and alot of people go through it so I commend you for coming here with your question. Im sad to say your husband is verbally abusing you for talking about your weight which is not good. I bet you are beautuful. What you can do is start by making a excersize chart which includes the date, the exercise, and also the meals you eat on that day. I advise you cut out eating fast food all the time because its not good.it makes ur weight go up unless you watch what you eat. So follow these steps and You will be ok ;)...and Get your husband involved sounds like he needs this too. U can always come back here if you need too :)<br />
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xoxo,<br />
bballmypassion<3Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2557366729247782342.post-17988532054847989492012-04-16T20:33:00.000-07:002012-04-16T20:33:23.078-07:00Unsure AngelDear Advice Angel, <br /><br /> I'm 12 years old, 13 May 25, and I'm
completely miserable! I never see my friends anymore(including my best
friend) because we no longer have classes together. I also don't get to
talk to them on the phone either. I used to be teased for my weight but
not so much anymore since I'm loosing weight. My mom's always at work
and doesn't get home until 2 in the morning! My parents also just got a
divorce. My mom and I are supposed to be getting a new house with her
boyfriend this summer(closing date on my birthday). I'll never get to
talk to my friends! On top of that, whenever i try to explain my
feelings to my mom, she never listens. I don't know what to do. I never
leave the house unless I'm going to school or somewhere with my
relatives. I feel like i have no life. My mom thinks I'm trying to grow
up to fast
because i like MGK & Trey and want to go to their concerts. She
also thinks im trying to grow up to fast because instead of always
asking her for her credit cards to order things of trey & mgk's
offline, i want my own debit card. I'm really just trying to enjoy
myself as a kid but I don't know how.<br />
<br />Sincerely, <br /><br />Unsure Angel<br />
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Dear Unsure Angel,<br />
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I have been in your shoes before feeling miserable at that age and feeling like I don't have a life. I realized my parents were just looking out for me at that age because, they didn't want me growing up so fast at the age of 12 and getting myself in trouble. They didn't want me getting pregnant, doing drugs, etc...... As far as asking her for her credit cards to buy things from Trey or MGK, she has the right to say yes or no. You don't need your own credit card or debit card at this age. If you want your own money, ask your mom if you can get an allowance once a week if you do chores. Whatever you want from offline, save the money and see if your mom can get you a gift card from the grocery store and put on it to buy that item you want from offline. Now, the friends issue, I think your mom is scared of the people you may hang with at school or even outside in your neighborhood. Explain to your mom about how you have been feeling about not having friends and try to suggest if she can meet the parents and see if your friends can come over to the house. If you have an other questions, you can ask me. I will answer it the best way I can.<br />
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xoxo <br />
Lissa89<br />
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<br />Lissa07http://www.blogger.com/profile/07009533191936997987noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2557366729247782342.post-78915194347360453312012-04-15T20:51:00.000-07:002012-04-15T20:51:04.345-07:00Dear Advice Angel,<br />
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I have been dating a really nice guy for about 6 months. He is amazing! He is smart, funny, my friends and family like him, and most importantly he loves God. He hasn't tried to be physical with me at all because he says he wants to wait until im sure i want to take our relationship there, but Angel I couldn't be surer. A few nights ago we tried some sexual stuff and it was really great. I'm not sure how to say this without being graphic so here goes, a gave him a hand job, but when he whipped it out I couldn't believe my eyes. He has the largest penis I have ever seen in my life. Now im no virgin by any means but it has been about a year since i have been fucked and my ex was an averaged sized dude and he was my first. Im afraid that it is going to hurt so badly but I dont want to seem like a baby or im inexperienced. What should I do Angel?<br />
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Stretched Out Angel<br />
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Dear Stretched Out Angel,<br />
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Dont take this the wrong way but you lucky wench! Lol most women would kill to have your problem let me tell you. The answer to your problem is very simple. You gotta tell him. If your guy is as great as you say he is then he will totally understand. Why dont you try to prepare for the big night by "helping" yourself along a week before your romp? Using a toy before hand would loosen you up. Now when the night is finally here then you have to make sure you are completely turned on (a little French Kissing on his behalf is in order if you catch my drift) and relaxed before he starts. Let him know to take it slow and only put in as much as you can take. If you cant take it all then speak up! It wont annoy him, in fact he will find it quite flattering that he is pleasing his boo. Im here for you Angel, whenever you need me. Happy humping!<br />
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XOXO,<br />
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Advice AngelAdvice Angelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02219218126033125853noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2557366729247782342.post-73818031376781938802012-04-15T16:06:00.001-07:002012-04-15T16:06:12.861-07:00tired angel<span style="font-family: 'times new roman', 'new york', times, serif; font-size: 16px;">Dear Advice Angel,</span><br />
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I'm tired of being at home. My mom has a new boyfriend and I can't stand him! He is lazy, has no job, and drinks...a lot. He isn't abusive towards me or my sblings, but he is towards my mom. He beats her on a regular basis and if we try to stop him she gets mad and beats us. I came home from class the other day and found him sleeping with another woman in my mother's bed. I told her that night when she got home from work and she slapped me and told me to stop lying and trying to ruin her happiness. I feel like he is going to continue making a fool of my mom and hit her so hard one day that he may seriously injury her. I don't know what to do Angel. I'm scared for my mom and I don't want to see her continupsuly getting hurt, but I'm also tired of the tables being turned on me. Any advice?</div>
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<span style="font-family: 'times new roman', 'new york', times, serif;">I'm so sorry to hear that angel. No one should put up with that no matter what, and your mother should actually believe you over any man. If you saw it with your own two eyes why would you lie about something like that. First off all no man should be allow to put their hands on any female next time he does call the cops yeah your mother may be mad but you doing it cause you love her, and don't want her hurt. Things could get a lot worse then what it is now. Tell her you want to see her happy with someone who will treat her like the queen she is and that he deserves better. Angel don't be scared you doing what you believe is best and at the end of the day your mom will appreciate everything you have done for her.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 'times new roman', 'new york', times, serif;">xoxo</span><br />
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<br /></div>IdolizedAngelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02755158152629099558noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2557366729247782342.post-348003312764302952012-04-15T14:43:00.003-07:002012-04-15T14:43:19.540-07:00Sensual Angel<div>
<span>Dear Advice Angel,</span></div>
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<span id="yui_3_2_0_1_1334525502720123">Some
would say that I have the perfect life. I'm a senior in college and I
am set to graduate this summer with my degree in business. I live away
from home and my family is coming to see me graduate. Unfortunately they
don't know what I do for a living. For the entire 4 years that I have
been in school I have stripped to pay my tuition. I live in a big city
and I work for one of the most prestigious strip clubs in the world. I
have "serviced" some of the most famous sexy guys in the world (Trey
included) and I love what I do. Its a rush in a half to dance and make
guys go crazy all because of the way I'm moving my body. I have a nice
car,nice, apartment, and I wear the best name brand clothes that money
can buy and I earned it all. I'm nervous because my parents don't know
what I do. They are nosey as hell and I'm sure they are gonna want to
know. I'm not ashamed because I'm an adult and good at what I
do, but if you were me, how wuld you tell your parents?</span></div>
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<span>Sensual Angel</span><br />
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<span>Dear Sensual Angel,</span></div>
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<span>The way I would tell my parents is to be honest with them about what you are doing. If they get mad, tell them how you feel about them being nosy and that they have to realize you are a grown women. Your not a child anymore. It's your decision on what you want to do in life. They can't force you to do what you don't want to do. I was in your position at one time where my parents were very nosy especially my mom. She still is to to a certain extent, but you just have to stand up to them, don't be rude, but just talk to them. If you need any other advice let me know and I will be glad to help.</span></div>
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<span>xoxo</span></div>
<span><span style="background-color: black; color: #b45f06;">Lissa89</span></span>Lissa07http://www.blogger.com/profile/07009533191936997987noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2557366729247782342.post-87695331500014673132012-04-14T10:24:00.002-07:002012-04-14T17:03:34.619-07:00To Frustrated Angel<br />
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<span style="background-color: black;"><span style="color: #e69138;"><span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">Dear Advice Angel,</span><span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;"> </span></span></span></h4>
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<span style="background-color: black;"><span style="color: #e69138;"><span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-weight: normal;">I have been dealing with something for quite some time so I'm just gonna come out and say it...MY BOYFRIEND IS A LOUSY F**K! He doesn't do any of the stuff that my ex bf used to do...the stuff that I love by the way. Every time I suggest something new he goes off on me and accuses me of cheating because he didn't "teach me" that. The only way I can c*m is by listening to Trey's music, but now he accuses me of fantasizing about Trey (which I am). If we can't listen to music during sex then, I won't get any fulfillment and the relationship will die. He even gets mad if he catches me "helping" myself along. Lately my ex has been calling just to check up on me because we were best friends before we dated and I want him back so badly. Sad thing is he is a bad boyfriend but a great lay. My current boyfriend is a great guy, but I need to be pleased. I hope I haven't confused you, but what should I do?</span><span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;"><br /></span></span></span></h4>
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<span style="background-color: black;"><span style="color: #e69138; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">Dear Frustrated Angel,</span></span></h4>
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<span style="background-color: black;"><span style="color: #e69138;"><span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-weight: normal;">Simply put, stick with the current boyfriend. I know, I know, the ex is very tempting. However, sex can only take a relationship so far. If you don't have the chemistry and a strong foundation for a relationship outside of the bedroom, then everything else will fall apart. There is a reason why your ex is YOUR EX. You don't want to create a relationship where you have nothing in common but sex. As far as your current boyfriend, what I would suggest is having a sit-down with him and let him know what you are feeling. There is nothing wrong with letting your boyfriend know what you like and teaching him those things. In return, ask him what he likes in the bedroom and how you can help him get along. Try reading books or watching videos to help the two of you along. Basically, figure out how sex can enhance the great relationship you guys already have. As Trey said it best, sex ain't better than love. So don't pass up on a good thing just because he has intimacy issues. Work with him. </span><span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;"><br /></span></span></span></h4>
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<span style="background-color: black;"><span style="color: #e69138;"><span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">Triumphant Angel</span></span></span></h4>Paige Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11180343390763361312noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2557366729247782342.post-76489576853170100662012-04-12T16:45:00.001-07:002012-04-12T16:47:23.171-07:00Regretful Angel<div>
Dear Advice Angel,</div>
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I
did some very sexual things with a guy I'd only been dating for a short
time and I regret them. Now he is threatening to tell everyone what we
did unless I continue to sleep with him. I realize that I'm not into
him the way I once was nad I have no interest in him at all. I do not
want to have sex with him any longer, but I don't want my friends and
family to find out all the things I did. I don't know what to do. I feel
like I'm being forced to do this against my will. DO you have any
advice at all for me?</div>
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Regretful Angel</div>
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think that you need to tell him that you do not want to have sex with
him. No guy needs to be threatening you to have sex with them. Also, I
think you need to not talk to him anymore. If he is still threatening
you, go to the police and say something or tell your family members what
you did. They may get mad, but it's best to tell them the mistake you
have done and get it off your chest. Don't feel bad about what you have
done. Everyone has made mistakes in their life. Just remember that god forgives you for what you have done. I'm going to give you
two verses out of the bible to read that will help you. Deuteronomy
4:30-31 talks about repentance and 3 John 1:11 talks about peer
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</div>Lissa07http://www.blogger.com/profile/07009533191936997987noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2557366729247782342.post-35703462725366985832012-04-12T15:46:00.001-07:002012-04-12T15:46:18.023-07:00Split Angel<div>
<span><span style="color: purple;">Dear Advice Angel,</span></span></div>
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<span><span style="color: purple;">My parents are getting a divorce. They were btoh cheating on each other and I knew about it, but I kept my lips sealed. I'm 19 years old and in college so I feel like this shouldn't be affecting me, but it really is. I cry a lot because I feel like if I had said something to one of them to let them I know I knew about their infidelity I could have saved my family. Now they both hate each other. My mom is forcing my dad to move out of our house and it makes me so sad to see him hurting. He is moving into a small apartment not to far from where we live now and he wants me to move in with him. I love my dad and feel like I am closer to him, but I love my mother as well, but I don't want to hurt either one of them. This is a huge decision and I have no idea what to do. Where should I start?</span></span></div>
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<span><span style="color: purple;">Dear Split Angel,</span></span></div>
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<span><span style="color: purple;">First I would like to say your parents divorce is NOT your fault in no shape, way or form. You can have a sit down with both parents and hopefully you guys can talk over some of the issues of what is going on. No that's not going to change their decision of getting a divorce, but maybe your understanding of their divorce will be clearer to you. Even with a divorce your parents will still love you. You cant force unhappy people to be together. If you go live with your father you can still visit your mother. It's not like you want be able to see her anymore. The decision on who you choose to stay will not make them feel that you love the other parent more and i hope they understand you love the both of them and want them to be happy in the future. I hope I helped you a little. </span></span></div>
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<span><span style="color: purple;">XOXO, WISE ANGEL</span></span></div>WISE ANGELhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16493166816771180486noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2557366729247782342.post-2602218987705724582012-04-12T15:36:00.003-07:002012-04-12T15:38:45.374-07:00To Non Denominational Angel<br />
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<span style="background-color: black; color: #e69138; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">I don't like going to church. I was raised in church my entire life and I love God, but now that my 18th birthday is coming up I'm not sure if I want to continue going. I only go now to please my family and I don't really enjoy it. To be honest, I'm not sure if I want to have a denomination at all. My church is very old fashioned and not a lot of young people attend. I feel out of place at times, like no one can relate to me. Also, I don't believe that you have to attend church in order to show your love for God. I want to talk to my parents about this, but i'm afraid they won't approve. What should I do?</span><span style="background-color: black; color: #e69138; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;"> </span><span style="background-color: black; color: #e69138; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">Non Denominational Angel </span><span style="background-color: black; color: #e69138; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: black; color: #e69138; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: black; color: #e69138; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;"><br /></span></h4>
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<span style="background-color: black; color: #e69138; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">As a young, Christian woman, I understand your issue. However, before quitting the whole idea of church altogether, try visiting other churches of different denominations first. I've tried this, and it worked out well. I ended up joining a church that was exciting, insightful and comfortable for me. And if church still doesn't work out for you (which is okay), try going to non denominational bible studies around your college campus. And most importantly, talk to your parents about your situation. They have probably been through the same situation before, and I'm sure they will understand. Remember this, we all have our own personal relationship with God, and only you and Him can define it. We all worship Him in different ways. You just need to find yours. Hope this helps!</span><span style="background-color: black; color: #e69138; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: black; color: #e69138; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;"><br /></span></h4>
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<span style="background-color: black; color: #e69138; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">Triumphant Angel</span></h4>Paige Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11180343390763361312noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2557366729247782342.post-24511245292217701712012-04-12T14:25:00.001-07:002012-04-12T14:25:12.065-07:00SECRETIVE ANGEL<div>
<span><span style="color: #cc0000;">Dear Advice Angel,</span></span></div>
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<span><span style="color: #cc0000;">I'm 16, I'm pretty, and I have lots of friends. I'm dating a good looking guy and all my friends seem to like him. I have a great family and I'm on the right track in school, but I am completely miserable. I'm in love with my best friend since kindergarten. She goes to a different school than I do, so the friends I hangout with don't know about her. She has no idea about my boyfriend. I'm afraid to tell anyone that I'm really gay and that my girlfriend is my best friend. My family don't really remember her because they met her like 10 years ago. She and I have been an item for about 3 years, but secretly. I have never told anyone but her about my true feelings and she thinks I'm completely out of the closet like her. Typing this now makes me feel like a huge weight has been lifted off of my shoulders. My girlfriend wants to come to my 17th birthday party that my parents are throwing this summer and I know she wants me to introduce her as my girlfriend, but I don't think I can do it. I know if I don't though she will be pissed and probably breakup with me and I can't have that. I feel so torn I don't know what to do. To make matters worse, the guy im dating wants to meet my parents. Please tell me what to do.</span></span></div>
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<span><span style="color: #cc0000;">First off I would like to say thank you for coming to us for advice. From my understanding you are more concerned on what others think of you. No your parents may not be happy with your decision of dating but it is your life. What's the point of living a secretive life? If your bestfriend is the person that makes you happy then be with her. Friends come and go if they are your real friends then no matter if you are gay or not they will still be there for you. Dont lead your boyfriend on. Let him know how you feel. I know it isnt easy telling people you are homosexual, and you are scared you will be judged, but holding it in is only making you more miserable. We live in a world were we are judged regaurdless anyway. You dont always have to tell people verbally about how you feel. Maybe you can let the ones that you want to know thru writing a letter just like you did us. (If that way is easier to you) I cant tell you wheather to choose your bf or gf but i can tell you to go with your heart and not by what you think others my say bout you if you choose either one. Dont rush yourself to make a decision either. Give yourself time to think everything over. Remember it's your life and you choose if you want to be happy or not by the decisions you make!</span></span></div>
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<span><span style="color: #cc0000;">XOXO, WISE ANGEL</span></span></div>WISE ANGELhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16493166816771180486noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2557366729247782342.post-80729538319295534022012-04-12T14:24:00.001-07:002012-04-12T14:24:30.926-07:00To: Uncomfortable Angel<br />
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I need help. About 6 months ago I met this really nice guy. We hit it off and I really like him a lot. It didn't take long for the relationship to turn physical and let me tell you he is the shit in every sense of the word. He is trying for an intership this summer so for the past month he has been very distant. I mean don't get me wrong I hope he gets it, but damn you can't put it on a girl the way he did and then just back off. WTF! Last weekend I went to a party with some of my friends because I got tired of waiting on a call from him. I drank way more than I should have and had casual sex with a guy I didn't know. I can't remember if we used protection or not because I was so out of it, but now I have a strange smell and discharge coming from down there. I just got a text from my bf saying that he wanted to take me out this weekend and that he was sorry for ignoring me. Like I said, its been a month since our last romp so I knwo he wants to get it in. I am freaking the fuck out because I have no idea what to do or what it could be. I'm scared as hell to tell my mom and my sister would kill me. I don't know where to turn Angel, give me some advice.</div>
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<span style="font-family: 'times new roman', 'new york', times, serif;">First and foremost you should really go to the doctor before you EVEN think about having relations with your current boyfriend again. I know you scared as hell, so would I but I mean you gotta look out for yourself here hun just make sure nothing is wrong there. Take as many tests there is pregnancy std, etc I'm not trying to scare you just trying to look out for you angel. When you get the results you have to tell your boyfriend what happen don't keep it in cause it will only have matters worse trust me I been there and done that ( me personally getting cheated on ) the whole cheating thing isn't something you wanna hear but I rather hear it from the person's mouth then someone else. Tell him he felt like he was putting you on the back burner you felt alone and all you wanted was his attention that he was being distant and you couldn't understand why he was doing it. If he gets mad and needs a few days to think about the situation where you cheated give it to him let him cool off. After a week ask if he wants to talk, and let him know you still want to be with him he means something to you, and you want this relationship to last. Don't be scare if you have anymore questions we are here to help you, I really hope this works out for the best angel. </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: red;">I dont know what you are asking but in a sense you came here for help and im goin to help you best i can. First off you are here for a reason so you arent wasting your time. The bible states in Romans chapter 8 verse 28 in that we are all called according to his purpose. So God has given you a purpose on this earth. I wish you would have asked a direct question but from what I read I would suggest counseling and sitting down with a professional and really discuss your feelings and problems with them. Call the Cousenling and Crisis Hotline at these two numbers 1800-448-3000 or 1800-448-1833 (TDD) and they will be gladly available to help. You can always come back here to ask questions as well and i will be glad to help you. please dont feel down or depressed because being in a relationship or having someone doesnt defne who you are as a person. So im here for ya..</span><br />
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