Sunday, June 10, 2012

To: Embarrassed Angel

Dear Advice Angel,
My boyfriend is like...blah to me right now! His hair is a mess, his clothes awful, and the shoes...don't get me started. I have tried to tell him that his looks have got to change because I consider myself a fashionista and my friends are clowing the sh*t out of me whenever they see him. He is really embarrassing me and I'm close to breaking up with him, but I love him and he is a great guy. From one funky dressed Angel to another...HELP ME!!!
Embarrassed Angel

Dear Embarrassed Angel,

I can understand the issue you're going through. I have HAD a few issues in the past with boyfriends. If I learned one thing, it's that guys are stubborn, and that they don't like to change much. However, there are ways to help him become convinced that a style change is beneficial to both him and you. It's key to start off slow. Maybe take him to the mall and give him some suggestions. Say something like, "Hey babe, I saw something at this store that would look hot on you." Or you could say, "Baby, how bout you check this haircut out. It frames your sexy face better." That way, not only will you help him become a better dresser, you're also stroking his ego (something that guys LOVE). The object of this is not to change him, but to highlight the great things your man already has. It's all about confidence and pride. He has it within him. Now, it's up to you to help him bring that to the surface. Good luck!

Snapping in Z formation for you!
XOXO, Triumphant Angel

Friday, June 8, 2012

Flabby Angel

Dear Advice Angel,
I am completely in love with my boyfriend. We have been together for 4 years and things are great, but sometimes he talks about my weight. He sometimes calls me names and tells me that I need to lose, but he never tries to help. He isn't the skinniest guy himself and whenever I suggest him trying to diet with me he gets offended. I cannot do this by myself Angel. I know that I need to lose weight, but damn I need some help. What should I do?
Flabby Angel

Dear Flabby Angel

Why don't you try to ask your friends to help you out. They may help you to lose the weight since your boyfriend does not want to help. Show him that you are able to lose weight without his help. If your friends won't help you out, try and tell your boyfriend that it would be best if they both try to lose weight for both of you guys health and to try and go on a diet with you also. If you need any other advice let me know. 


Thursday, June 7, 2012

Lonely Angel

Dear Advice Angel,

I'm 17 and I will be a senior in high school this year. High school has not been my best years like everyone said they would be. I hardly have any friends, I don't do anything on the weekends, and my dating life is not there. I'm miserable because I feel like everyone is laughing at me. I'm not sure what to do. This is my last year of high school and I want to reinvent myself so that I'm not going to the prom alone. Help me Angel.

Lonely Angel

Dear Lonely Angel,

I was you about 1,000 years ago when I was a high school senior (only 7 years lol). The solution to your problem is very simple...GET ACTIVE!! There are countless clubs at your school that are just begging for you to join! You have to find something that you are good at and find a club that would benefit from your talents. If you can't find a club then create one! I bet if you join a club there are going to be people there whom you haven't met. The conversation starter will be an wasy one since you guys already have the club in common. There goes your new friends as well!! Now for the weekends, volunteering is amazing and it will help your college applications if you are going that route. You can also meet new people this way. You have to get out there and mingle! Sitting at home every weekend you will never find new friends. Guys love, love, love confident women...THIS IS SOOOOO YOU!! You have to show people that you are fun and that you can take it or leave it and this kind of attitude is going to have the guys flocking to you. I hope I helped Angel and I'm always here for you!!

And FYI College is really your best years so get ready!!! ;)


Advice Angel