To Chunky Angel

Dear Advice Angel,

I want to try out for the cheerleading squad in August, but i'm nervous about my weight. I went to tryouts last year, but they didn't go so well. I have been trying everything to lose weight, but nothing is working. I know that I would be a great cheerleader, but I'm nervous the girls won't pick me again because of my weight. Help me!!

Chunky Angel

 

Dear Chunky Angel,

I have felt like you before and I was trying out for basketball but in order to get over my weight

I ate healthier and excersized alil bit everyday. It sounds to me alil fun and excersize will help you ;)..I often blast alil Trey Songz or Beyonce and dance around the house..Dancing helps you lose weight or i go outside and walk. Drinking water and eating healthier meals will help as well. Don't be to subconscious about your weight and I know you will make the squad.. Go Team Go!!!!..So when you do make the team please make sure you tell me and keep me posted...:)<3 Im here for you

 

 

 

 

xoxo,

bballmypassion <3

Ticked Off Angel

Dear Advice Angel,

My boyfriend cannot stand how much I love Trey. Whenever I talk about him (even if all I'm saying is he has a new song) or sing Trey songs, my boyfriend goes crazy! I don't know what to do because I have been an Angel way before I started dating my boyfriend and I love Trey. Its not like I talk about Trey excessively to my dude the way I talk to my angel sisters. Do you have any advice for me because I'm not interested in giving up Trey's Angels for my guy, no matter how cute he may be.

Ticked Off Angel

 

 

 

Deat Ticked Off Angel,

 

 

FIRST OFF I SO AGREE WITH YOU ON NOT GIVING YOUR ANGEL MEMBERSHIP UP...BECAUSE I WOULDN'T EITHER. But you can try to see what's his big issue with Trey is first. Maybe he is just jealous. Maybe he thinks trey will scoop his girl away lol. You shouldn't have to give up your membership for anybody. He knew what he was getting into before you guys became an item so why would he want that to change. Keep your membership and if he don't like it he can kick rocks!

 

XOXO, Wise Angel

Response to Torn Angel

Dear Advice Angel,

I'm convinced my sister is jealous of me. She doesn't want to hangout with me anymore and we don't talk. Ever since I got a boyfriend she has been acting weird. Last weekend I even cancelled a date so that I could hangout with her, but she just kept complaining that I probably missed my boyfriend and really didn't want to be there. I love my sister and I don't want her to be jealous, but I like my boyfriend too. Any advice?

Torn Angel

Dear Torn Angel,

I think we all been there before being jealous of someone even your sister but maybe it leaning more towards her being hurt. Trust me it takes time to adjust to it. She could a little neglected by you, yeah you cancel a date but she probably believes you did it just to do it. Have a talk with her let her know that just cause you have a boyfriend in your life doesn't mean the bond between both you guys is gonna change. She probably think he's gonna take you away from her, and she won't have that sister she can always go to. Surprise her make a sister weekend just you and her no talks about boys that nothing has change and give it time she will come around just don't put her on the back burner boyfriends come and go but sisters are always there to hold you down through it all. I really hope everything works out for the best and remember you can always come back we here to help you.

xoxox,
IdolizedAngel

No More Fighting

Dear Advice Angel,

I have been married for 3 months now and although I am in love my husband, we fight like cats and dogs almost daily. I'm not sure what to do because I'm starting to think we may have rushed into marriage. My mother always told me to keep my business private so I'm going against her by posting on this site. Please help me.

Down and Out Angel


Dear Down and Out Angel,

Omg, are you looking into my life? Lol! I mean I am going through somewhat the same thing. Although I am still a work in progress, I am learning to put God first in my marriage. I have been married for almost a year now (May 14th), but my husband and I bicker...a lot. The first thing I would try is cooling off before speaking to each other. When we are angry, we say things without thinking about our tone or how it may be perceived. Next, why don't you make a list of all the reasons you married your boo in the first place? That will help you remember the positive in your relationship. Three months is not long enough to say that you want to call it quits. Every relationship goes through ups and downs and these times are just beginning. You both took vows to love each other for better or worse and you must adhere to that. I say give it some time, remember to speak to him the way you want to be spoken to, and try to hear each other out before continuing. If that doesn't work then there is nothing wrong with seeking outside help such as your pastor, a close friend you can trust, or this site :D! I bet you guys are just both strong minded people. These problems won't last Angel. I'm here for you whenever you need me.

XOXO,

Advice Angel

Response to Hurt Angel

Dear Advice Angel,

I am worried that none of my friends like me. I always feel that they are talking behind my back. Whenever I come around they stop talking or they giggle and then become quiet. This really hurts my feelings because these are the only friends I have in my high school. What should I do?

Hurt Angel

 

Dear Hurt Angel,

 

I know exactly what you are going through. I have been there so many times, Ive been teased and talked about since the 2nd grade.And those people they aren't your friends really if they are laughing and giggling everytime you come around. You should ask them if they are talking about you and if they are , you need to leave them alone because true friends build you up not bring you down to hurt you. Even though your feelings are hurt now just know you are Beautifully and Wonderfully made in God's image and as long as you believe that and are confident in yourself, who cares if they are laughing or making fun of you. YOU know your true self and as long as you have your family and me it shouldn't matter. I hope this helps you and smile because I love you and wouldn't laugh or talk about u but laugh and talk With you.:)..So have a awesome day!!!...

 

xoxo,

bballmypassion <3

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Hey angel Family,
Dont be stranger and ask any question you like ;)..




xoxo,
bballmypassion

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