To: Shamed Angel

Dear Advice Angel,

My boyfriend has absolutely no rhythm. He thinks he is Chris Brown however. Just picture a dude with Trey Songz swag and Trey Songz dances...FAIL! The prom is coming up and I really don't want to be laughed out of school. Whenever I say anything to him about his dancing he gets pissed and won't talk to me until I apologize. I want my prom night to be magical but I dont want to be embarrassed either. Any advice?

Shamed Angel

Dear Shamed Angel,

Yikes! His dancing is THAT bad? (No disrespect to Trey, but....you know. LOL) Well, since flat out telling him is not working, just try showing him in a smooth and easy way. When you dance with him, just ease into getting him to do what you want. Like, slowly back up on him, hold his hands and dance on him. That way, you both would be technically dancing without the embarrassment. And if that doesn't work out, just have fun with him anyway. It's your prom, and the most important thing about prom is to just have fun with your boyfriend. If you can't beat him, might as well join him. Happy dancing!

XOXO,

Triumphant Angel

Wish I Were Deaf Angel

Dear Advice Angel,

My boyfriend is in a band and he really loves it. In fact, he is one of the only guys I know that loves Trey Songz for his drive and determination. You can't imagine how much that turns me on, but there is one problem, my bf SUCKS as a singer! Omg Angel he sounds like a drowning bird trying to sing. As Angels, we all know how much Trey,s high notes SLAY, but whenever my bf tries to imitate I cringe! He is thinking of singing SABTL in the upcoming talent show but I dont want him to because I dont want him to embarrass himself. What should I do???

Wish I Were Deaf Angel


Dear Wish I Were Deaf Angel,

Lol. When I got this question, I laughed to myself because, I understand what you mean. My bf thinks he can sing too, but I tell him all the time that he can't sing. Lol. But, he never listen's to me. Since your his gf, be honest with him and tell him that he cannot sing. Don't say it in a mean or rude way. Say it in a nice way. If he get's mad, then one day when you catch him singing, record him and then show it to him. He probably will then realize how much he can't sing. Then suggest to him to do something else in the talent show. If he can't think of something else to do in the talent show, try and ask him what he likes to do. Whether it's dancing, playing an instrument, etc.... If you need any other advice, feel free to ask me anything. I will answer it the best way I can.


xoxo
Lissa89

Dear Advice Angel,

I love school! Im very smart, involved with school, and ahead of the game. i have a plan for my life and so far I am really sticking to it. Lately i have wanted to add some excitement to my life.Being smart and active in school has not made me very popular with the other kids so im kinda a loner. the school elections are coming up an i would love to run for an office but im afraid no one will vote for me. Any advice for me?

Unsure Angel

Dear Unsure Angel,

I do have some advice for you...YOU HAVE TO RUN!!! You have to try Angel because if you dont try you will never know if you could have won. We were alike in school. I was kinda a nerd, but I wanted to run for class office as a senior. I had some really mean b*tches run against me and they made the time that i ran a living hell...but I BEAT THEM! Turns out everyone was tired of their stuck up a$$es! This could be your moment Angel and you have to take it. Make sure that you have a list of things that you would like to see changed and stick with it! There could be more students who think exactly like you. Most importantly HAVE FUN! Im here for you Angel, anytime you need me. Now get to writing that campaign speech!

XOXO,
Advice Angel

To: Not Hair Ready Angel

Dear Advice Angel,

My mother has been a beautician for 20 something years and she is very good at what she does. She always talks about retiring and how she cant wait for me to take her place. Now that I graduate high school in May she wants me to go to beauty school but that isnt what I want to do. Matter of fact I dont even want to stay in town. Im ready to move and i no longer want to attend school until im ready. Is there a nice way I can tell her that hair is not my thing?

Not Hair Ready Angel

Dear Angel, well i mean just be real with your mom that you don't wanna hurt her feelings but being a beautician just isn't something you have your career set on.. And that school will be set on hold you just want to live your life with a little fun but tell her that will go to school eventually just not right away, and away from home suggest that maybe you will help her out from time to time when it comes to doing people hair so she won't feel alone. I hope this works out for you angel and remember if you ever need more advice don't be afraid to ask that question..

xoxox

IdolizedAngel

To: Worried Angel

Dear Advice Angel,

This is so hard for me to explain so I will just start at the beginning. When I was 13 i wanted to be grown so badly. I acted out towards my parents, I cut up in school, and I dated much older guys. I was so popular and all the guys wanted me. The oldest guy I dated was 19. And he was so fine. I lost my virginity to him after only 3 months of dating and he quickly kicked me to the curb. About 6 months later i found out that I was HIV positive. I tried talking to him but he denied that it was from him cause he was clean. He tarnished my name and told the entire school that I was easy. I ended up having to move. I told my parents that I was raped because i didnt want them to know their daughter was a slut. After 5 years of punishing myself i finally met someone great. I love him and things are getting serious. I know he is going to bring up sex soon and Im nervous. I dont know how to tell him and Im afraid to lose him. My health is under control because i take my medication as directed. Please help me because I dont know what to do.

Worried Angel

Dear Worried Angel,

Wow, this is a tough subject. However, I will try to give you the best advice I can. First off, it takes a lot of courage to write in about this situation because HIV is still such a taboo subject. I applaud you for telling us here about your situation. So now, it's time for you to apply the same courage into telling your boyfriend. Tell him about your entire situation. And yes, that includes your sexual history. Not only is it fair for him to know, it is also the law to tell every potential sexual partner about your HIV status and how you are taking control of it. This doesn't mean that sex is out of the question. You just have to wrap it up and take extra precautions. Most importantly, it's about being truthful to yourself, to your boyfriend and to your family. Yes, I'm suggesting talking to your parents as well because if you don't, it's going to eat you up inside for the rest of your life. Just note that your boyfriend may not give you the reaction you want, but at least you give him the right for him to make that choice. Stay strong, my sista.

XOXO,

Triumphant Angel

Unsatisfied Angel

Dear Advice Angel,

I read comments from other advice that you gave another angel who had the problem of her boyfriend being too big. Well my problem is the exact opposite. I love my boyfriend to death, but his d*$k is just too small. I dont feel anything when we f$#k. Do you have any advice for me?

Unsatisfied Angel

Dear Unsatisfied Angel,

Well ummm... Where do i start from?? Well u can talk to him and tell him bout how you feel about that situation. That way yall can talk bout other things he can try to perform better in the bedroom. Or maybe he can take some sort of d*$k growin pill. I really hope i helped you in some kind of way. :/


XOXO, WISE ANGEL

Unhealthy Angel

Dear Advice Angel,

I have been married for one year and I am completely in love. I used to be a skinny young thang back in high school, but of course that was from an eating disorder. I know that my hubby loves me, but lately he has been making small remarks about my weight and it is starting to get to me. They arent rude remarks and they are all true but it still hurts. Its so hard for me to lose weight without purging and the stress of work, no money, and now his remarks arent helping. He is a big guy as well and its not like he tries to workout with me. We also eat cheap fast food a lot because thats what we can afford. Is there anything that i can do to calm my nerves or help me lose weight without reverting to my old ways?

Unhealthy Angel

Dear Unhealthy Angel,
WoW, your story is very real and alot of people go through it so I commend you for coming here with your question. Im sad to say your husband is verbally abusing you for talking about your weight which is not good. I bet you are beautuful. What you can do is start by making a excersize chart which includes the date, the exercise, and also the meals you eat on that day. I advise you cut out eating fast food all the time because its not good.it makes ur weight go up unless you watch what you eat. So follow these steps and You will be ok ;)...and Get your husband involved sounds like he needs this too. U can always come back here if you need too :)





xoxo,
bballmypassion<3