To: Embarrassed Angel

Dear Advice Angel,

 

My boyfriend is like...blah to me right now! His hair is a mess, his clothes awful, and the shoes...don't get me started. I have tried to tell him that his looks have got to change because I consider myself a fashionista and my friends are clowing the sh*t out of me whenever they see him. He is really embarrassing me and I'm close to breaking up with him, but I love him and he is a great guy. From one funky dressed Angel to another...HELP ME!!!

 

Embarrassed Angel

Dear Embarrassed Angel,

I can understand the issue you're going through. I have HAD a few issues in the past with boyfriends. If I learned one thing, it's that guys are stubborn, and that they don't like to change much. However, there are ways to help him become convinced that a style change is beneficial to both him and you. It's key to start off slow. Maybe take him to the mall and give him some suggestions. Say something like, "Hey babe, I saw something at this store that would look hot on you." Or you could say, "Baby, how bout you check this haircut out. It frames your sexy face better." That way, not only will you help him become a better dresser, you're also stroking his ego (something that guys LOVE). The object of this is not to change him, but to highlight the great things your man already has. It's all about confidence and pride. He has it within him. Now, it's up to you to help him bring that to the surface. Good luck!

Snapping in Z formation for you!

XOXO, Triumphant Angel

Flabby Angel

Dear Advice Angel,

I am completely in love with my boyfriend. We have been together for 4 years and things are great, but sometimes he talks about my weight. He sometimes calls me names and tells me that I need to lose, but he never tries to help. He isn't the skinniest guy himself and whenever I suggest him trying to diet with me he gets offended. I cannot do this by myself Angel. I know that I need to lose weight, but damn I need some help. What should I do?

Flabby Angel

Dear Flabby Angel

Why don't you try to ask your friends to help you out. They may help you to lose the weight since your boyfriend does not want to help. Show him that you are able to lose weight without his help. If your friends won't help you out, try and tell your boyfriend that it would be best if they both try to lose weight for both of you guys health and to try and go on a diet with you also. If you need any other advice let me know. 

xoxo

Lissa07

Lonely Angel

Dear Advice Angel,

I'm 17 and I will be a senior in high school this year. High school has not been my best years like everyone said they would be. I hardly have any friends, I don't do anything on the weekends, and my dating life is not there. I'm miserable because I feel like everyone is laughing at me. I'm not sure what to do. This is my last year of high school and I want to reinvent myself so that I'm not going to the prom alone. Help me Angel.

Lonely Angel

Dear Lonely Angel,

I was you about 1,000 years ago when I was a high school senior (only 7 years lol). The solution to your problem is very simple...GET ACTIVE!! There are countless clubs at your school that are just begging for you to join! You have to find something that you are good at and find a club that would benefit from your talents. If you can't find a club then create one! I bet if you join a club there are going to be people there whom you haven't met. The conversation starter will be an wasy one since you guys already have the club in common. There goes your new friends as well!! Now for the weekends, volunteering is amazing and it will help your college applications if you are going that route. You can also meet new people this way. You have to get out there and mingle! Sitting at home every weekend you will never find new friends. Guys love, love, love confident women...THIS IS SOOOOO YOU!! You have to show people that you are fun and that you can take it or leave it and this kind of attitude is going to have the guys flocking to you. I hope I helped Angel and I'm always here for you!!

And FYI College is really your best years so get ready!!! ;)

XOXO,

Advice Angel

Pissed Off Angel

Dear Advice Angel,

I have given up on trying to be followed by Trey on twitter. With the exception of just a few days ago, Trey seemed to only follow strippers or exotic looking chicks and I am neither of those. I am an average looking girl with a flat chest and no ass. I'm dark skinned and I don't have long hair. I know that Trey would never look twice at me, but that doesn't stop me from spending my money on M & G tickets for every show...like an idiot. I have asked trey on NUMEROUS occasions to follow me, but he never does. He always says he will, but he doesn't and I'm sick of it. I know he doesn't follow because he doesn't find me attractive and thats what hurts the most. I may not be model pretty, but my money spends the same as theirs. I'm dedicated to him and I deserve a follow. I think I may just forget trying for a follow and denounce my Angel ship. Any advice?

Pissed Off Angel

 

Dear Pissed Off Angel,

Im in the same boat as you. I always thought I would have been followed by trey by now too.

I would say be patient as you possibly can , i do think its not fair as angels we have to keep waiting for our follows from trey but he is a busy man and has 4 million people following him that he can't see each one. I would sugget writing him a letter thats what I did and asking him to follow me, although i'm still waiting. I do think its not right that he follows alot of strippers and models but he is human you have to remember that. He is not perfect and sometimes doesn't see what we angels want him to see. I do not think you should denounce your angel membership because you never know what Trey may do. He is very spontaneous in a way that will make you forget why you were mad at him. So just be patient your time is coming. Next time you see him juss tell him to have twitter open or write him alil note saying follow me on twitter please. I guarantee you will have a follow and a hug in no time. Baby Steps as I call it. He said my name march 8,2012 so Im determined to get my follow soon.:) I hope this advice helps you and im here if you need anything else ;)

 

xoxo,

bballmypassion<3

Obsessed Angel

Dear Advice Angel,

I think I'm obsessed with Trey Songz. I know what you may be thinking,you're an Angel so how can you be obsessed, but I honestly think that I am. I love everything about him and his singing drives me crazy! I've been dating a guy for about 3 months and we get along well, but lately he has been complaining that all I ever listen to is Trey. Whenever he is in my car I always blast Trey,but thats because I love him. Of course I deny it, but I think he may be right. I fantasize about Trey all day everyday. I cant help it, he is so fine. My bf said that if I dont stop checking for Trey so much that he is going to dump me. What should I do? I love Trey and I'm not interested in leaving him.

Obsessed Angel

Dear Obsessed Angel,

Well, I have the same problem, but I'm not obsessed with Trey. My bf knows I like Trey, but I don't talk to him about it. You have to ask yourself, do you want to be single all your life or do you want to be with your bf? If I were you, I would chose your bf because, Trey is just a person you fantasize about. It's not like any of us angels are gonna ever be with him. Plus guys don't like us liking a guy celebrity like that. I can tell you from experience. Do you love your bf? Do you want to stay with him? These are the questions you have to ask yourself. So if you can try and do fun stuff with your bf to get your mind off Trey. That's what me and my bf do. As far as you listening to Trey, your bf shouldn't have a problem with it. You can listen to whatever you want to listen too. He's gonna have to accept the fact that you are gonna listen to Trey's music whether he likes it or not. Even if(or when) yall get married you gonna still listen to him. So, just try and cut down on thinking about Trey so much. I know its gonna be hard, but I have confidence in you that you can. If you need any other advice, let me know and I will try and answer it the best way I can.

xoxo

Lissa89

To Confused Angel

Dear Advice Angel,

I have been with the same guy for about a year now and we get along well. He is a bit more reserved than I am but its all good. I went to his family reunion three weeks ago and I met one of his cousins. He was hella cute and we ended up laughing and talking half the time I was there. My boyfriend thinks its great that I am getting along with his family, but he doesn't know that his cousin and I have been texting each other nonstop since we met. I even ended a date early with my bf so that I could go catch a movie with the cousin. I like the cousin so much but I dont want to hurt my bf. What should I do?

Confused Angel

Dear Confused Angel,
Im glad you came here for help. I really think you should talk to your BF about your feelings.It seems as though you have lost interest in your current relationship and are ready to move on. You may not want to hear this but maybe you should break up with your BF and just be friends because the situation could get worse if you and the cousin get serious..Does the cousin know you have a Bf? if not you need to let him know that way you dont end up hurt in the end. Communication makes everything else easier. ;) I hope everything works out for you, keep me posted if you need more help ur more than welcome to come back.

xoxo,
bballmypassion<3

NO Baby Angel

Dear Advice Angel,

My husband is a great man. He is an excellent provider and he treats me very nice. Lately he has been talking about having children and i dont think that would be such a bad idea, but all he does in his free time is play video games. I mean he gets pissed off if I ask him to do something else. He is almost 30 years old and I think games are little to childish for him. How can I tell him to cut it out without being mean?

No Baby Angel

Dear No baby Angel,

First off thanks for bringing your question here, and the best thing to do is to sit down with your husband and discuss with him how important it is that you would love children. You can just ask him politely to cut back on playing video games and maybe focus moreon the important things in life. Video games will always be there but the times to focus on having children may not come as often as you want due to work and other things that may arise. So sit down havea nice talk with your husband over dinner about your feelings. I hope this helps.;) and come back if you need more help



xoxo,
bballmypassion <3